Why are most men complete assholes towards me if I'm a 6/10 in the looks department?

[Anonymous]

For the majority of my life most men & guys in my age range have either tried to start shit towards me or treat me like an outcast

So I've began uploading pictures of my my mug & I got a ton of 6/10's & just two 7/10's in the "1 - 10" scale

I'm not a sexual threat to these men nor do I have the charisma to snatch their girl by my mediocre looks

So why have a lot of men tried to start shit towards me?

[SteveSmith1985]

But what makes you think it must have anything to do with your looks? There's a ton of reasons guys might not like you aside from your looks. What makes you think that's got any bearing on this? Life cannot be understood by a "sexual threats" model. There's so much more to any relationship than that. That's not really how people work (as you're finding out firsthand). You're simply looking in the wrong place for your answer here

[Asker]

Most men have outright said (from afar) that I look "terrible" & many have frowned at me

[Anonymous]

I can't speak for all men, but I have never met a guy who said to me "I refuse to be friends with that dude because I don't like his face" it's always been "if he's cool, then he's cool." so perhaps you just aren't cool? Perhaps you have too many negative qualities.

[Opinion Owner]

If that's the case ( which it most likely is) work on yourself, don't make excuses.

[Asker]

Many men have outright said (from afar) that I look terrible & many men have either frowned at my presence

[Anonymous]

Men are like that, even i have been ignored, cheated and lied to so many times. Some men even treat u like you dont even exist. It's part of our life.

[Asker]

But if it's consistent with most men? Am I being sought out to be this social outcast?

[Daniela1982]

If you looked that good why would you not show it? Instead of hiding behind anonymity?

[Asker]

I already do (in public) & I do notice that it's mostly men that react to my appearance (face) & rarely ever females

The females are the ones who tend to be "cool" with me on netruel grounds

The males aren't... there the ones who want to either instigate or provoke

But I never get hit on by the opposite sex... but they show some diplomacy to an extent

[OlderAndWiser]

If "most guys" treat you badly, either most guys are bad people. . . or you are doing something to which they are responding. Which of those two possible explanations is more likely?

[Asker]

If I had to be honest

70/30

I just happen to "attract" negativity & I'm giving off wrong signals

I'm not a hunk/popular guy/ladies man/extrovert

I'm okay looking (6/10) with a lean physique
I dress fairly average

I don't hit on any gal or try to act suave

[BeMuse]

Most guys don't care about your looks and they wouldn't know if you are attractive to women or not because they're not homos. They don't like you because how you act.

[MementoMori777]

Seems like a lot of dudes thrive off ego and pride and that can be blinding to the point they create assumptions and act on it

[Asker]

What are you implying?

Even some guys went as far as to want to brag they could do more push ups than me but I did 115 in one go right in their presence

I used to participate in some athletics in school so my conditioning is alright

[MementoMori777]

That many dudes probably see you as a threat or assume you were to their girls so they act up, just how they assume this, they can assume other crap and act on it as well, thing is that doesn't mean it was true but they are blind by pride and ego that they created these assumption which leads to these misunderstandings

[TenderFantasy]

Immaturity is rampant in your age range.

[Asker]

So from your conclusion I'm just being sought out as being a social outcast?

Because I've noticed a pattern

Most grown men/young guys that do this are always with their girlfriend/wife

These males tend to either snicker/have wide grins/or chuckle while the female just ignores the situation at hand

[Anonymous]

Are you feminine?

[Asker]

As in look or behavior?

People say that I have a strong jawline/baby face but other than that no

I dress in all black (not emo/goth) but rather just dark jeans/t shirt/coat

No dyed hair

[Opinion Owner]

Both as in how you talk. How you carry yourself. While I don’t know you, but you also say you aren’t other men pick up on this. You may not think you are but other men may think so. Are you that type of man who gets up, brushes your teeth then washes face w water then heads out for the day or the type to do a routine of things like facial cleansing, eyebrows, etc, etc?

[Asker]

I'm the type that gets up & washes his face & brushes his teeth

I've got a medium "tone" to my voice

It's not too low pitch or high pitch

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly it’s really hard to say w out actually seeing. A pic for myself, not just that interacting w you.

[Asker]

It is

[Opinion Owner]

Would you say you’re a man’s man?

[Asker]

I don't have friends

I'm a loner/lone wolf

I do as I please, when, how I want