Would a man mind if his girl offered to split the cost of the engagement/wedding bands or if she covered most if not all of her ring? (Page 2)

meetkitty123 · 2023-04-02T21:35:42Z

I am no where in the position of being in a situation where I get the joy of picking out rings. However ever since my brush with death in my dual truck accident I been reconsidering life. The things I've done and what I want. I also have been plagued with pain nightmares and mini nervous breakdown or panic attacks. During a recent panic I pulled my car over to relax. I looked up and it happened to be in front of a mall I had bought my engagement ring. Feeling nostalgic needing to relax I went in to the store. There were many memories which washed over me. Good and bad. I stopped at the ring styles I always wanted. During my first engagement He would have bought it for me had I asked but I didn't dare to. He even implied "that's the one you want isn't it" I horrifyingly shook my head no in shock. A lie yes but I was very apprehensive at the idea of asking for something so costly with not contributing anything to it. It would have eaten at my conscience. We picked a set which ran significantly less. Staring at the certain rings I realized I still want what those rings stands for... A forever and happily ever after. A partner whos my equal. I want someone who we balance each others and equally contribute to one anothers needs. I also realized I'm not the same girl as then. I'm wiser at putting cash a side and I'm more confident. This time I can turn to a man I love and confidently say to him that's the one I want and I'll help pay for it. My previous husband would have been offended by this. Though he was much older than me and from a different custom. Do people considered it rude to A pick out one's own ring? B would it be rude to offer to help pay especially because their requesting a certain ring which may run a bit steep? As for me I've made up my mind lol that's the ring I want... I don't have the man to go with it yet but I'm hoping to find him! 🤣... And he doesn't have to worry I'll buy it if he can't afford it and then his as well!

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You hopefully know him well. Ask him.

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  When I meet him I will 😉
  
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  Great - I hope you meet him soon!
  
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Men should pay... my opinion

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Waste of money in any case.

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I don't think so.

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It’s unus

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