and then another guy lamented how men aren't taken seriously in USA, men are abused more. and the only reason i can think of for that is — not enough friggin reports. if your own fellow men says things like "i don't care though", damn right society is gonna neglect you.
so instead of saying men get mistreated too, say "men get mistreated. i'm a man and i wanna do something. whether i have been there or not is not important, i as a man care about everyone, including men getting abused."