Been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. We are seeing where this goes for the both of us as we’re pretty into each other.
Last night he told me gave his female coworker some mushrooms the other day because it’s her birthday today.
He said he might go out with them. And might do mushrooms with her and her friends.
This makes me very uncomfortable. I am more of the insecure type. He could tell I’m worried. Said there’s nothing to worry about, and that they don’t even want to sleep with each other.
It does seem he has more female friends than male friends.
How does one handle a situation like this? Knowing that there’s a possibility he might be getting high around other girls…just makes me want to pull completely back away from him.
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Is it the fact that he is going out with female coworkers bothering you? Or is it the drugs?
It’s both. I know I’m an attractive girl and every guy friend I’ve ever had has tried to make a move on me when I thought the friendship was innocent.
He’s mentioned she is attractive, but they don’t see each other that way. On his fridge, he has a card from her saying something like “Hey, you’re a cool dude. Let’s go to the casino again sometime. Xoxox.”
The xo’s made me question a lot.
And I always felt like drugs made people more in the mood.
I don't understand what your guy friends hitting on you has to do with this, but it sounds like you are awfully insecure for being just two months in. A greeting card? Come on.. have trust in him, because if you start showing that you don't he will walk.
Id wonder why you weren't invited?
We haven’t met each others friends yet. It’s his coworkers birthday.