I started chatting to this guy. He kept asking what I was doing on the weekend and then asked for my number. We text, but I always have to start the conversations. He does seem engaged in the convos when I do text, though. He asks me questions etc. and asked me to come to his friend's party with him. Is it bad that he never texts me first?
It's not necessarily "bad" that he never texts you first, as everyone has their own communication style and preferences. Some people may prefer to initiate conversations more often, while others may prefer to respond to messages rather than initiating them. However, if you feel like you are always the one initiating conversations and would like to see more effort from him in that regard, it may be worth discussing it with him.
It's positive that he seems engaged in the conversations when you do text and that he has asked you to come to a party with him. These are both signs that he is interested in you and enjoys spending time with you. It's possible that he simply prefers to communicate in person or over the phone rather than through text.
That being said, if you would like to see more initiative from him in terms of initiating conversations, it may be worth bringing it up in a respectful and non-confrontational way. Let him know how you feel and ask if he would be willing to initiate conversations more often. Keep in mind that everyone has their own communication style and preferences, and it's important to respect each other's boundaries and needs.
He invited you to go out with him, and you are going to fret about text in? Really?
How he 'texts you first' every single time and never asks you out, ever? Would that be better?
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So? He doesn't like to text. Once upon a time people dated without texting because we didn't have mobile phones. Maybe you should try it.
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