Why did my ex ask me was I going to buy a gift for his birthday?

[cth2188]

My ex-husband remarried and his wife and our daughter are buying him a gift. Why would he call me to ask me if I'm buying him a gift? He doesn't call me to wish me a Happy Mother's Day less more Happy Birthday.. is he crazy?

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If I were to buy him a gift on behalf of our daughter why would I tell him? I wanted to tell him ask your whore monger wife to buy you a gift who you cheated on me with

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I called him back and asked him are you crazy or do you only think about yourself- he tells me well I'm going to buy a mother day gift hence he's never wished me a Happy Mother's Day - his wife can't birth him any kids medically- I did.. am I going to buy him a gift no nor send our daughter with any money to buy him one. He's a egoistic and a narcissistic sob I don't need anything from him he needs to be a father for the kids..

[spartan55]

'whore monger wife'. Good to see you aren't bitter.
He's probably doing it just to aggravate you, and it seems to be working.

[cth2188]

No it's the audacity of him.. he's selfish and only thinks of himself

[cth2188]

The only relationship we have is because of the kids

[spartan55]

Okay, he's an asshole ex? Not the most unusual thing...

[cth2188]

Yes he is

[spartan55]

So? Okay you can only control you. That's what you should focus on imho.

[cth2188]

I want him to move on with his life because I have- it's been over 10 years since we ended

[cth2188]

He married a whore cheated on me with our daughter- things are great for the kids and I..

[spartan55]

Cheated on you with your daughter? Wtf?

[spartan55]

Read my reply again. You can't control him. Stop bothering to try and worry about keeping yourself in a position where he can't bother you.

[cth2188]

I'm working on a certification and have a business I don't need him other then to be in his kids life... that's it..

[spartan55]

Yeah, I get that... smh...

[cth2188]

Let his wife buy him a gift he lied on our daughter those arrangements were between his wife and our daughter which I don't care..

[QuietVerbena]

He’s crazy lol. And egotistical.

[cth2188]

Indeed and a narcissistic I need a drink after that has the nerve to ask me if I were giving our daughter money to buy him a gift lol

[QuietVerbena]

Totally

[Sparkie460]

He really has some nerve.

[cth2188]

What I said then turned around and asked me to give our daughter money to buy him a gift with his wife - he has to let me know constantly about his wife

[Sparkie460]

He wants his new wife to take your daughter shopping for a gift for him with your money?

[cth2188]

Yep he must be crazy

[Sparkie460]

He's insane and selfish.

[cth2188]

Yes I'm glad he remarried I don't have that headache 😅 I'm free

[Iron_Man]

Because he still wants stuff

[cth2188]

Welp he should ask his wife

[cth2188]

I'm divorced

[Iron_Man]

But I saw you’re talking about dating others now I thought you weren’t gonna do that

[cth2188]

I'm open to it , but no rush.. I'm single and think I can

[Iron_Man]

Ok…….

[cth2188]

A lot has to be consistent for that and I'm not sure

[Iron_Man]

Right