Boyfriend was on a night out and at 6am this morning changed his public relationship status to only friends can view?

[Anonymous]

He was on a lads night. He stopped texting me at 1am. When I woke this morning, he still didn’t text me, checked instagram and was active at 6am he put his insta page to private and his Facebook status put it that only friends can see that he’s in a relationship. I find it suspicious?

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What’s your take on it?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has a stalker who keeps stalking his social media. Are you 100% certain he was actually on IG at 6am? I never sign out of my account so I am always appearing online if I am connected to the internet. Same as FB, if I am connected to the internet I appear online even if I am asleep.

[Asker]

Well he has cheated on me in the past. I caught him out 2 years ago and he threatened suicide. I forgave him and went back. But I watch my back still

[Asker]

He done it in the middle of the night anyway because I keep an eye out on the relationship status as even tho it’s only social media. It’s a reassurance thing to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Why stay with him if he cheated on you? Look at what it is making you do. Anything he does you are going to constantly have your suspicion and wonder if he is out there cheating on you. This is absolutely no way to live. I really think you should leave him. You deserve better

[spartan55]

You believing social media relationship status actually has meaning reflects a lack of intelligence.

[Asker]

Social media now a days for this age of generation, a lot of cheating starts on social media

[spartan55]

I was around before and have watched it warp two generations who can barely communicate.

[Asker]

Aren’t you lucky it wasn’t a big thing in your generation. No need to be so nasty

[spartan55]

Not being nasty at all.
Cell phones and the internet weren't around until I graduated college. Until then it was mostly phone calls.