My boyfriend talks openly and freely with me shall I be worried?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend talks and acts freely with me im worried does that mean he is no longer interested, like he doesn’t care how his personality looks like infront of me,.. ex: he will swear other people infront of me, he will raise his voice he acts with me like a sibling relationship I don't know how to explain but like how much siblings r comfortable doing and saying whatever…

[Justaguyagain]

So you are worry he is getting confortable with you? I dont think that's a bad thing (unless he is actually a dushbag, but swearing doesn't make you one, but you can tell him you dont like that).
When people get close, they let out more of their personality, is normal i think.

[Asker]

Oh thats what i was worried about like i thought this letting out of their personality means negative thing and means he isnot interested in me anymore

[Sparkie460]

Communication in a relationship is a very good thing. You should be happy that he is open with you. If you don't like him swearing or being Loud, tell him. If he keeps doing it then you'll have to make a decision on whether or not you want to stay with him

[Sedusa_]

Well, in many ways I would tell you that his being open is a good thing, but in this situation, or at least by the way it's worded I would say it's not a good thing. It sounds like he's immature and or testing you. He wants to see how far he can go by the sound of it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Seriously? You both need to be able to communicate that way for it to work out... He's doing fine, whats your deal? Why can't you talk to him that way?

[spartan55]

I don't see how you are connecting these dots to him losing interest?

[mommymommymommy]

So you're saying his TRUE personality, actually came out, LMAO

[Asker]

Yeahh exactly!! Like he is too comfortable with me doesn’t worry if he will look bad infront of me and I don't know if he lost interest or what..

[mommymommymommy]

So you're saying his ACTUAL personality FINALLY CAME OUT, LMAO