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How am I supposed to trust men when this happens? (Page 2)
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How did he get social media?
Did you call the cops?
Sounds scary.
I have no idea how he found me!!
1. Trust those who prove themselves trustworthy.
2. Judging four billion men based upon your exceedingly small sample - even 1000 would only be about 0.000025% - is quite unfair.
I could go on and on about the kind of men I've come across lol. It's not an 'exceedingly small sample'.
Yep the world is falling apart, can't trust anyone nowadays smh
Yeah. Poor girl :(
Wdym?
His girl! I feel so bad for her. All her photos are with him she’s so in love. I feel for her.
Yea that sucks very bad for her, hopefully she finds out
Yeah and he gets his karma…
Indeed, well either ways best of luck on your love journey and hopefully this creep leaves you alone 💯🙌
Thanks! Lol!
💯🙌
There are some men that you simply CANNOT trust!! You have to learn to identify them. And when you see red flags, respond accordingly!
I totally agree!! Like “cannot” trust under any circumstances whatsoever
Yep!!
That's how life works. For both men and women. Everyone has to risk getting hurt. You aren't special.
" how am I supposed to trust men when this happens" ... You could try using common sense. Every man is his own individual person. Stay single if you can't do that.
Wow you're sooooo smart you just solved everyone's problems x
I don't know what else you want me to say about it, lol. It's literally just a question of if you're capable of using common sense and can accept the fact that you might end up getting hurt.
I'm sorry there are asshole guys who do that. They took a vow when they got married but I guess it does not mean much to them. Block this guy and threaten to tell his wife about him hitting on you.
You have nothing to worry about.
If someone is cheating on someone with you it's not your fault. So, be guilt free
True but not with me!!! Lol. He’s getting nothing from me!
That's definitely a good thing on your part. Virtue is hard to come by
For sure!!! I mean maybe if we all stopped they’d never have a chance to cheat even.
That's true ,💯
It sounds like you have a stalker on your hands.
Not all guys are like him. There are a lot of faithful men out there.
I don’t see him anymore. But honestly this is SUCH a common thing. It’s hard to believe a man won’t do this to you.
You can never let your guard down. There are so many guys that are players out there. Unfortunately you have to weed out the players to find the right guy
That’s very true I guess
why dont u ask them straight out before start of relationship if they are married and if they say yes ask them why they hitting on you they are the ones with the knowledge u need
I’ve done that before they say “let’s just be friends” 😂😂😂 I swear
maybe ask the right question on here:
Questions for guys that are either married or in relationship, would u want to hook up with me and if so why do it when you are married what is so special about me?
then be friends with them dont hookup with them hand out do stuff have fun but no intimacy see what happens then. you might get to meet their single mate that is hot and into you and sees you for the fun girl with morals u are
why u not following me?
Looooool are you suggesting you’re one of those guys?
im not one of those guys
Nice
Just take your time getting to know them better? All three of my marriages failed. One I’d known for years and years so I thought I knew enough about her. She was the psycho of the bunch.
i wish I could give you better counsel
Family Guy is actually a documentary about society: girls are attracted to guys who treat them like crap.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/GxsuLBClBFYAre you showing any of these guys interest in them before you realize that they're married?
Absolutely not. This guy in particular basically harassed me.
Sounds like they're just jerks. The only reason I asked, because I remember when I was engaged and still married, women would show interest in me a lot more than when I was single. Before I was engaged? Nope! After I was divorced? Nope! Sometimes there's something about guys that have significant others that attracts some women. I guess it's a combination of the guy showing confidence and not actively looking for a woman. Just a guess.
Ah!!! Those types of women!!! I despise it lol. They’re in competition with others. It’s a game for them.
@itsalyssaagain Yes, and the "not trying" on a guy's part can seem confident and attractive to many women also.
Mehhhh
@itsalyssaagain I didn't say or mean you specifically. lol
Find you a man that deeply fears God and loves the Bible and you won't have a problem dealing with wicked men..
Funny thing is the guy in this story is soooooo “religious”
Religious has nothing to do with it. Many religious people are devils.
I'm talking about someone who legitimately fears God, not someone that goes through religious rituals or claims a religion.
Damn so true.
Well. It’s not all men who do this. Just like not all women cheat… But it’s because they’re bad people. It’s because they’re just full of lust
Women are more likely to cheat and have more options and opportunities to cheat…
If you have been with men who cheat, you are likely picking the same type of men.
Believe me. When you’re a woman and have a lot of options it gets so lonely and meaningless eventually. You want to feel protected and held by a real man in the true sense. None of these men have the capacity to love us in the way we deserve, nor see us for who we are. We’re just an image for them. Like I said - it gets boring eventually.
Women need to be less picky, loneliness is a by product of poor choices.
Never ever ever lowering my standards sorry lol.
Igotstandardsbro. com
The female delusion calculator will show you how insane your standards are. Prepare yourself for a life of loneliness.
A man who fits the standard you seek will never see you as something they want.
I always say a blowjob a day keeps side chicks away & if you are not getting enough sex in a relationship it probably means you are probably getting it outside of a relationship & unfortunately in this case you were a side piece.
Because bad boys, menly men are the worst. And get away with it.
There’s just so many of them…
These guys were stupid for getting married in the first place.
He’s 23 as well!!! He’s so young.
He married a woman who instantly turned into Satan spawn.
You do realize that women your age cheat more than men, right?
I guess I’ve never been around those kinds of women. None of my friends cheat. I had one family member who cheated a lot lol but she’s the only woman I’ve known to cheat.
That's interesting since in the majority of the cases of infidelity I'm aware of in my family and acquaintances, the cheaters were female. But regardless, what matters are the facts. And the facts show men tend to cheat more after age 30, but women cheat more before that age.
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Interesting
Maybe you're just not picking the right ones. I've never cheated!!