I agree, he was both hurtful & rude. A true partner builds & helps you grow, not cuts & disrespects you as he did. I think he should have told you what the man did, I also think he should have told you about your shirt before you left the house.
As a woman, you need to take more responsibility for your actions, meaning, that blouse. Know that if you wear something like that men & women are going to look down it. It has nothing to do with weak & vulnerable, it has everything to do with be self conscious of yourself & your surroundings.
Back to him, if he cannot see that you are hurt by his words, if he cannot accept that you are hurt by his words when you tell him, and he cannot apologize for hurting you, then perhaps you should rethink this relationship. He doesn't have to say he did the worst thing in the world with bad intentions, but he can be sorry he hurt you. Does that make sense?
And I should think, at the very least, if some old perv looked down my shirt & said something to my boyfriend, that my boyfriend would at least tell him that he is being very inappropriate. At the very least.
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i'd take it as a compliment. you're overreacting in my opinion. the only thing that would have disturbed me is that he didn't seem to care about another guy looking at his gf's boobs
He's wrong. The politician would have done it anyway. Creepers are creepers, but your boyfriend needs a wake up call, because he clearly doesn't understand you... From your post, you seem MUCH stronger and independent than a gal I once dated, he seems like a douche... To be honest. No man should cut down a woman, like you said. He doesn't seem to respect you all that much.
The truth has room for tact too. He is not talking to one of the guys. I would ask the politician if he was married or just wondering if my girlfriend was. Something anyway. That is not funny whether you are vulnerable or not, he should defend your honor right?
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