Guys, My boyfriend celebrity crushes dont look like me and they are all the same (blonde hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin lips), am I not his type?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has always complimented my features and said how he’d always wanted a girl with tanner skin and curly hair since that’s his type (me). However, 9 months into dating, I asked jokingly if he had a celebrity crush expecting either no one or someone that looks like me. He said Natalie Dormer, Cara Delevigne and Blake Lively. Clearly, he has a type and I think I’m not it.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know…. I think you should talk to him. Really if someone really is into you. They should loose interest in anyone else. But you also did ask the question at least he told the truth.



But. I get it. I don’t wanna be with someone whose interested in anyone other then me

[RingOfFire]

I have no idea who any of those women are, but don't assume that if he has a celebrity crush on someone who doesn't have the same features as you that he isn't into you.

Guys can be attracted to different looks for different reasons. It doesn't mean that he isn't even more attracted to you.

[Asker]

all three have the same features. all his exes have those features too. im the odd one out, he can think I’m beautiful but I’m not his ideal

[RingOfFire]

It doesn't really work like that. Not that simple. Attraction is a mix of things. And if you really love someone, they become the most attractive girl in the world to you no matter what their features are.

[Mangospacho]

Luckily he doesn’t have a chance with any of them since they are celebrities. But most of us have celebrity crushes that don’t affect personal relationships and you did ask him if he has a celebrity crush and they don’t look like you. So what? If he had named a curvy brunette with olive skin, wouldn’t you still be jealous?

[OlderAndWiser]

You know if you are “his type.” But many of us have an ideal woman and never date a girl who fits the ideal. Having an ideal doesn’t mean that’s the only girl who will turn him on.

[TheThingALing]

I hate when. This kind of topic is brought up in a relationship. Even worse, rate me from 1-10.

[crossdressingrihno]

It doesn’t really matter.
If he thinks you’re hot then his type doesn’t matter.

[nawtee_me]

You have trust issues don’t you? I mean his celebrity crush…. Someone he will probably never meet let alone even get close enough to talk to and you are worried?

[TracyF]

Oh my goodness stop. He likes you girl. Why else would he be dating you? Trust the man when he says he likes the way you look.

[boggboss]

Lol somebody is insecure and jumping to conclusions

[magiusX26]

if you were not his type, then you would NOT be his girlfriend.

[Twalli]

They're not real people who are possible for him to date, so don't read too much into it.

[Sunssong]

That's not the point.

[Twalli]

@Sunssong sound like it is. Very few girls in the porn I watch resemble my girlfriend. She knows it doesn't mean she isn't my type.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

How can you not get that celebrity crushes are just fantasy make believe and that he obviously loves you otherwise he wouldn't be with you? You're who he chose.

[Asker]

Did he choose me because he genuinely finds me the most attractive woman alive or would he cheat on me if Natalie Dormer offered herself? I’m who he chose, but would he have chosen someone else if he had the chance?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

He picked you because he likes you and if whoever ND is showed up, he'd probably see she's not who he imagines, she's got flaws like everybody else. It should matter that with other girls out there he picked you.

[Asker]

He clearly has a type, I don’t mind him having celebrity crushes but having the same prototype of girl with the same features shows that you like those features. I don’t have them

[RingOfFire]

Sincere attraction is about a lot more than looks. It may start with looks, but after that it's the whole package. And obviously you have what he wants.