Why do men reject women and then continue looking at their social media stuff?

[Anonymous]

A guy rejected me and I decided to move on , he does continue to look at my stuff which is interesting. Why would he?

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11 mo

Update: he ended up messaging me 2 days ago. I knew he had some kind of intentions here

[Reorx]

I reject them because I'm not in a position to take care of her. I don't do much social media. Could be insecurity & an attempt to save face. Men are beginning to understand some women will use them as a validation boost & choose to deprive them.

[Asker]

Honestly, I’m not using him as an ego boost. I do have a crush on him but he had issues on his side that kind of got in between us

[Reorx]

Yeah, undealt with trauma can cause some strange behavior.

[Asker]

His behavior was 100% strange and honestly I think his behaviors have gotten in the way with a lot of his talking stages.

[tzdc21]

Probably just to masturbate. He didn't see you as relationship material but he still finds you sexually attractive. That's what a lot of guys will do to girls that they know aren't (at least in their minds) relationship material.

[Asker]

I don’t post anything sexy on my page lol my Instagram stories consist of mostly concerts and events I go to

[tzdc21]

Maybe from your perspective it's nothing sexy, but to him it may be something else. He may get off just by seeing your face or seeing you jump around. Everyone has different turn ons

[Billlewis]

Because even though we know we're not going to get our dicks inside you, we still like playing with ourselves while we're looking at your sexy pictures.

[Asker]

Nope he messaged me two days ago, there was another agenda behind him looking at my stories

[jshm2]

The same reason I refuse to eat McShit burgers, but will happily get a milkshake from there.

It's not all of you they like or hate. Just parts of you.

[Asker]

He didn’t know me enough to form hate against me lol

[spartan55]

Why wouldn't he? You girls make such a big deal about this and it's completely irrelevant.

[Asker]

The question is, why would he? It’s not a big deal, it’s curiosity.

[spartan55]

To see if you finally put up a bikini pic.

[DaveJord]

I honestly do not understand why people let this social media crap mess with their minds soo much.

[Asker]

Honestly it isn’t messing with my mind lol it’s curiosity. I would only ever take his advances seriously again if he actually messaged me

[DaveJord]

Well until then don't give it a second thought.

[DaveJord]

There is no way of knowing why people do what they do on social media or why... 100s of possibilities.

[DaveJord]

But its creepy.

[Asker]

I definitely wouldn’t lol I put the ball in his court to hit me up even just as a friend and he hasn’t so it’s his loss really

[DaveJord]

Good!

[boggboss]

Because not wanting to be with u don't mean he dont want to be updated about your life

[Asker]

We were strangers that went on like 3 tinder dates lol but I get that

[Anonymous]

Maybe still likes you as a friend or rejected because he wasn't interested in dating right now?

[Asker]

We haven’t talked since. He expressed then he couldn’t give me what I deserved at that moment. It’s just super weird. Every Instagram story he clicks on

[SmokyEnrique]

May be he is interested in you. He is in process of thinking

[Asker]

Unfortunately I won’t make the move until he does lol I had to literally ask him if he wanted to reject me because he was breadcrumbing , so it’s almost like lack of communication dominance on his end

[SmokyEnrique]

I think wait for sometime, show your feeling, he sure like u, does he single?

[Asker]

He’s single lol I am talking to someone , though I can’t shake off my crush for this guy. It’s kind of an oh well how he is isn’t meant for me.

[SmokyEnrique]

Choose a guy which best for u

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women do.