A guy can flirt with every girl but with the ONE , he truly likes get nervous and cannot flirt? Is it?

[Anonymous]

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They can't flirt with their crush.

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I mean guy can flirt with a girl he doesn't likes but he feels nervous when it comes to flirting with the girl he is drawn to.

[ohsheeT]

This is such a great question I think many guys go through this

The girls he's flirting with he just being his real self having fun and he's not even flirting.. it's just who he is. You are seeing the real him almost like a smart ass and maybe funny at times or he's trying to make an Awkward Moment better it really is just harmless play

The girl that he like he holds himself to a higher standard is not as open kind of withdrawn holds himself back because he doesn't want to be a fool in front of her he really does like her a lot but he's afraid to let her see that side of him the real him it makes no sense to me why he does this

But if you really like him you have to get him to joke with you you have to get him to show you the real side of him because if you cannot open up that part of him you might get together but it won't last because he can't be himself I know all of this sounds weird but I am that guy I still to this day don't understand why I do it or why the person that I like I won't let them all the way in to see who I really am

My suggestion to you is really listen really pay attention to the girls you think he is flirting with because he's not it's just himself being him somehow you have to tell him stop being so serious with you and joke around let you in if any of this makes sense I guess I don't know but smile laugh and joke with him try to bring that side out of him with you then that relationship will last a long long time

[Asker]

I mean guy can flirt with a girl he doesn't likes but he feels nervous when it comes to flirting with the girl he is drawn to.

[Asker]

Exactly , great answer

[ohsheeT]

It's not that he doesn't like them in some way . Just not the way he likes the girl he's drawn to he's try to be more word mature more responsible but when he does that he's not being in real cell is true self and that's what you need to bring out of him and say it's okay to crack a joke or to flirt with you because that's when he becomes your best friend and becomes more open with you

[justabuddy]

I don't think this is gender specific. It easy to flirt with someone when their is no risk of emotional damage. When emotions are on the line, things get much harder.

[Anonymous]

It depends on what you mean by flirting. Is it just stares or is it more?

[Asker]

Talking

[TrillXHippy]

Wrong, false and negative. I don’t flirt with every girl because I’m not that guy

[Asker]

I mean guy can flirt with a girl he doesn't likes but he feels nervous when it comes to flirting with the girl he is drawn to.

[TrillXHippy]

Oh alright true true

[Vikkrram]

Nope a guy can't flirt with every girl.

[Asker]

So he flirts with whom?

[itsalyssaagain]

Most of the time yeah.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would say so

[Snedger____]

Wrong.

[Asker]

Do u flirt with your crush?

[In_Trance]

Not true