Why won’t he commit to me?💔😢?

[ivydavis]

I’ve been hanging w this guy for about a month. We go on fun dates and hikes and stuff all the time. He brings me around his friends and his family. He knows I don’t sleep with anyone unless I am in a committed relationship so we haven’t had sex. Not even oral. He is protective over me and always wants to know where I am. But he says he’s not ready for a relationship. He broke up w him girlfriend a few months ago and they had a rlly toxic controlling relationship so I’m thinking maybe that could be why. Should I stick it out w this guy or move on? I’m just confused bc I’m not being used bc we don’t have sex. And he’s the one paying for everything and asking to see me all the time. But then why not just date me.

[MementoMori777]

It's possible to be used for other things that aren't necessarily for just sex, he could be using you for companionship or company, have you ever thought maybe he misses his girlfriend and he's doing all these things with you simply cause he misses all these things, do you by any chance look like his ex? Maybe you might remind him of her? All I do know is that he is doing the right thing by not getting into a relationship with someone else if he still hasn't moved on from a previous relationship but he is kinda messed up for carrying you on, you can move on or wait to see if when he moves on, he will cuff you, one more thing I feel like I should mention, if what I said is true and you remind him of his ex, it's not certain but it's possible when he moves on from her, he might move on from you too, that's of course if what I'm saying is true, don't just eat up all the shit I'm feeding you cause it might be bull 😂

[mommymommymommy]

A girl i like, who apparently likes me back, a nd has for the last 10 years. I HAD NO IDEA, lol. I recently told her how i felt and she said "yeah I like you two so and so", so i said "well, why didn't you say anything sooner and she said "im sure i have". The problem though is, we were never really "dating", we're just friends who know that we like each other.

1. She's afraid of being hurt again

2. She literally has no time to date. She works two jobs, is always working out, and when she's not, she's traveling or like i said, working. So, she just figures she doesn't have the time to date (on top of number 1)

That is the only real reason she might not commit to me. Other than the fact that we also supposedly both don't want marriage or kids

[Anonymous]

To be fair, one month isn’t very long. I know that certain formalities have been taken (like meeting important people in his life) and he shows a lot of interest, but it doesn’t mean he’s ready to fully commit just yet. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and he didn’t ask me out until about 3 months in.

[chrissykerdock]

it's time to start giving him blowjobs that will deepen the relationship immediately... i always say if you want a good relationship give blowjobs.

[RespectfulGuy]

True motives will reveal through time.

Keep your stand: no commitment no sex.

See what happens eventually.

PS: note that you're getting older each day.

[Anemone978]

Id wait 3 if he don't commit move on

[In_Trance]

Smfh... it's been a month!!!
Chill