We are friends and he is older. I feel he really likes me (and so do I) but we can’t express our feelings. We don’t hangout or anything. The only time we are together is at work. We talk through our eyes and it feels like we know so much about each other. We were separating for 6 weeks and saying our friendly goodbyes. We hugged thrice and he kissed me twice on my cheek before I finally left him and said bye.
does it mean anything? I talk to myself that am just overthinking that’s all. But I really like him and I try to hide my feelings sometimes. But sometimes it’s quite obvious.
Looking for answers. Thank you.
It is important to be mindful of the professional boundaries when it comes to relationships with coworkers or those in a higher position at work. While it is possible he may have feelings for you, it is important to determine whether a romantic relationship with him is appropriate considering your work situation.
It is possible the signs you mentioned could indicate that he is interested in you, but it is important to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings to understand his perspective and intentions. You can start by trying to gauge his reaction if you express your feelings to him in a non-confrontational way.
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Kiss on each cheek?
That's a common custom in many cultures (e. g. Brazil), but doesn't mean anything more.
If he’s Italian, it’s a normal thing for him to kiss you twice on the cheeks, and it doesn’t have any reference to the sentiments.
On the other side, he shows particular attachment to you.
If there are other signs you tell he likes you, I think you should talk with him directly and honestly. Maybe try propose a little informal appointment out of work, nothing like a date but just a little meal or a beer at the pub…
It's possible he likes you but feels he can't say anything much as you work together. Plus, he may not know how you feel about him either.
If you like that much, why don't you drop hints that you want to seem more? Or screw the hints and just ask him out! You have nothing to lose. If he doesn't feel the same, you may feel hurt for a little bit but then you'll move on.
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Impossible to know and even if it did mean somthing it dont matter because as u said u both can't express how u feel
why not three times or 10 times on the cheek, hiw many kisses does it take forbyou ti smarten up, 59 cheek kisses?
What’s his ethnicity? I only ask because it could be just a cultural thing. I know that Latinos do this.
Are you 30-35 years old and still keeping your love in your diary? lol
Invite him to dinner.
Why does it matter? You two don't even talk.
It's a cultural thing.
Cheek kissing means friends.
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