Why did some guy ask me why I don’t embrace my body?

[Anonymous]

I’m an introvert and I don’t post pictures as much on Instagram. I have a nice natural slim hourglass type of body and round bottom. Some guy ask me why I don’t embarace my body. I really don’t have no reasons to. It’s a lot of girls posting half naked pictures and they have nice bodies too. They usually are models and strippers. I work a regular job. Every once in a while I might post a full body picture. people think just because I don’t post pictures of my body I’m not embracing it. I don’t love myself.

[MrOracle]

It doesn't sound like you have any issues with your body to me. Instead, it sounds like this guy was just trying to manipulate you into posting pics of yourself for his enjoyment - and you are certainly NOT obligated to do so.

While I have SOME sympathy for the guy - most men under 30 are sexless, and not by choice, and so many are desperate to get anything - I also know that many women are private and aren't looking to troll for male attention by posting body pics. There's nothing wrong with saying no. It's not like there is a shortage of women showing their bodies on the Internet - he can look elsewhere.

[ManOnFire]

He probably is saying that because he hopes you'll post more pics of yourself on social media that he can enjoy. I believe you. Just because you're not showing off your body on the Internet doesn't mean you hate it or think you're unattractive. It's great when a woman isn't that focused on her figure, even if it does look good.

[Flower7]

People take social media too seriously. They think posting is everything. It’s fine to be more focused on the real world instead of posting every little thing on the internet.,

[SpyderMurpph]

@Flower7 Can I ask you for some advice and opinions on a female neighbor?

[Asker]

Wheww thank you

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong w that. As a matter of fact not that opinion matters I think it’s best you continue to be the way you are. Too many women these days seem full of themselves, like they need all this attention. A lot of men don’t want women like that. Women who seek attention by those methods. It just means she’s drama. Focus on what has worked for you, you don’t have to go the same route as many other women have.

[Anonymous]

You just have more respect for yourself, but some lucky guy will get to see you that way eventually and appreciate it