We needed to talk about a couple things, so we made a mutual agreement to talk about it later on. He is the one that kept reminding me he did indeed want us to talk.
So the time comes and I begin with the first topic. It wasn't the most important of the two, but it was the quicker, easier one, so I opted to get it out of the way first.
He took forever to even respond to me, so we didn't start talking until late. We did get the full first part done, then he stopped responding and never texted the next day either. Basically, we never got to finish the entire conversation and the longer, more important topic was left being not discussed.
I don't get why he did that when he was so hyped up on talking about things. It actually disappointed me quite a bit. I was assuming he would text the next day so we could pick up where we left off and finish the conversation... but no such luck.
I didn't want to text him first because I had sent the last text and I didn't want to be a double texter or be too pushy about things. It just makes me wonder why he did that after we had made an agreement on this.
Any tips on how to address this without being rude or pushy? I really would still like to discuss the other portion.
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He might want to talk about things, but is so unused to actually talking about subject that he gets uncomfortable about it. You could message him, and let him know you want to hear what he has to say and reassure him that you genuinely want to know how he feels. If he feels safe being vulnerable he might open up more. (Ofcourse, I dunno what the topic was, so I might be assuming something vastly different from what's actually going on)
talk face to face
I would strongly prefer this. Trust me. But unfortunately, texting was the only option at the time.