Okay this is going to be a fairly lengthy explanation in order to hopefully get the most accurate opinions and advice.
So 9 months ago I met this guy and we instantly hit it off and quickly became official, despite his original aversion to putting a label on our relationship.
Things were really good between us and we spent hours upon hours hanging out and hours on the phone together.
However, about 4 months in, he called things off due to his hectic schedule and said we could try again in a year once he finished school and things eased up for him.
That was in May and we’ve talked everyday since and we’ve hung out a bunch as well. We take turns checking in on the other to see if we’ve met anyone else and we both have not and are strictly talking to each other still.
Now, most recently, we’ve hung out quite a bit and I feel like we made some serious progress getting to understand each other on a deeper level and he explained in more depth why he wanted to break up.
When we were officially together he showed no interest in meeting my friends, but just this past week HE asked if he could meet them and he did.
He also let me drive his brand new car and he said he’s never let anyone drive a car of his ever lol but that’s just a side note.
Other little things include playfully calling me “girlfriend” and sending me song lyrics about love.
I’m not under any delusions and I know we likely aren’t in a place yet to officially get back together, but I naturally have some unanswered questions about the state of our relationship and where it could possibly be heading.
I’m hoping to get some unbiased opinions and advice on this. Thanks!
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Hmmm well this is hard because I totally understand why you want to keep trying with him but it seems to me that he hasn’t been honest as to why he broke it off. Now mind you I think when someone breaks it off with you, they should be 100% honest because not only does it help him but it also helps you learn more about yourself and what you can do for the next.
So here’s the thing, I think ultimately he’s the problem. He lied to you initially, and not only that he hasn’t told you the honest truth it seems to be. I think if he wanted to be with you at this point, he would.
You make some good points. I try to remain unbiased and rational when looking at the situation, but I still don’t get why he would ask to meet my friends when him and I aren’t officially together if he didn’t have intentions of this going anywhere
Some men just suck lol plenty of times I met a guys parents and it meant nothing bc they let the talking stage lead to no where. People don’t have good morals anymore
To me this doesn’t sound that confusing. But I’m sure there are details you didn’t include. Sounds like you tried a relationship and like 4 months into it he broke up with you. Now you are single and not just having to exclusively talk to him as you know he’s talking to other people.
How can I help?
Or did you want help
Hey Barry! The question clearly states were exclusively talking to each other, thanks!