Why don’t guys trust girls who have many male friends?

[freedom]

I think there is nothing wrong when you trust your partner. What do you think about it? Why don’t guys trust girls who have many male friends?

[alonso]

That's the question i think that; the perception that some guys may not trust girls with many male friends often stems from insecurity or societal stereotypes. It's essential to remember that not all guys share this viewpoint. Some individuals may feel threatened by the idea of their partner having close friendships with the opposite sex due to concerns about jealousy or potential romantic interests. However, trust and communication are crucial in any relationship. It's essential to recognize that having male friends doesn't necessarily indicate a lack of fidelity. Trust should be built on open and honest communication, rather than assumptions based on the number of friends of a particular gender.

[Worst]

It’s not necessarily a red flag.

The Red flag about it would indicate they entertain the advances of the opposite sex with no second thought to the feelings of a partner. Same thing could be flipped with a dude with a lot of girl friends. Or even same sex relationships.

The problem is people who entertain those said friends who show clear signs they want more than a friendship.

Casual bullshit conversations are fine and people need to learn to stop being so clingy and insecure about casual social encounters their partner has. It’s typically best you communicate with your partner about how you feel when they interact a certain way with the opposite sex, like don’t kiss your friend on the lips and turn around to your partner and be like “it’s just a friendly gesture” or sneak off with those friends behind your partner.

Learn to cut off people who are showing signs of intentionally driving a wedge between a developing relationship.

[In_Trance]

You don't have to look far for the actual answer to this. Men and women can't be friends.
Just watch how many men and women on gag for example post about their guy friend or their girlfriend and how one or the other has developed feelings.
This shit happens all the time.
People can say what they want about either gender being insecure or projecting... Shit happens

[Anemone978]

It seems suspicious when a woman has more guy friends than girlfriends...
It's like why can't you keep girls around? Sleeping with their boyfriend's? You a bitch or a jealous type? Do you love to flirt so guys like to keep you around?
It is the same with men with lots of female friends, it is questionable behaviour especially if the girl or guy in question is attractive..

[Nifrayu]

@Anemone978 or she just relates to them more.

[Anemone978]

@Nifrayu I relate to guys more I am literally a tom boy but I still hang around women more and have more female friends than male.. So yeah it always seems dodgy to me if a women can not fit in with other women, something is up with her..

[Nifrayu]

I don't think so.

[Anemone978]

@Nifrayu Well I'm pretty sure I hung around way more women then you and really understand the evil and bitchy way we work.. so believe what you want LOL

[Nifrayu]

Why do you think that?

[Anemone978]

@Nifrayu Do you know how many girls I thought were my friends or even my best friends only to get betrayed by them for no reason.. women are evil bitches.. not all but a lot are.. that is why even though I still have friends from high school days I don't trust them or consider any of them best friends LOL Even my moms friends they all slept with my dad.. its fucked up but the one is my moms "best friend" my mom even forgave her LOL
I legit am pretty good at reading women from one hangout session..

[Nifrayu]

My friends aren't like that. I've never had a friend betray me.

[Anemone978]

@Nifrayu Girls don't usually betray guy friends and vise versa.. but between women it is a constant competition.. if you have something they want they either will try to take it or they will drag you down but doing it sneakily not right to your face..

[Anemone978]

But there are some really nice women who are what they seem and are pretty good friends.. Just I think there is less of them..

[Nifrayu]

If you understand that, then why would you not understand a woman having more friendships with men than women? Your experience doesn't support your reasoning.

[Anemone978]

@Nifrayu Yes but after all the betrayals of women I still weeded through and found decent friends.. and the bitches who fuck up too much lose their girl friends and end up in male groups.. So I can understand a tomboy just hanging out with guys because they like guy shit but I can not trust a women who dresses revealing hanging out with just guys and loves sports and things.. and more often than not she is only in the group because they all want to fuck her and she love the attention..

[jennifer_bloom]

The way the girls I know are is that they have close female friends and distant hi and bye male friends. After marriage, I'm not sure they have any male friends at all outside work.

[Anonymous]

It's projection. Most men would fuck their female friends given the opportunity, or at least have an fantasy imaginary harem of them if they are many. So they imagine women do the same and feel threatened. In reality a woman with many male friends is often either a tomboy or a pick me who love the male attention they get from being the girl in a guy group but that's it.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I have many guy friends, but all I have to say is say no. Anyone who doesn't accept that 'No' isn't a friend. Do guys not trust me, or not trust the guy friends?

[Apple1996]

They are jealous and don't want her around other men. It's really fucked up tbh like let her keep her friends

[WhitneySnow]

They’re afraid the girl will cheat with one of them. They’re almost always wrong. Most girls I know know how to keep friends and boyfriends in separate categories.

[exitseven]

I just don;t trust the ones that have lots of guy friends but they are all guys that they used to date or had sex with.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If she doesn't have male friends, she's probably not a gamer, if she isn't a gamer, I don't want her.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I was scared of looking at the answers, but this was nice to read.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Ms_Facesitter The other thing I don't get is most people meet through friends, so if I have guy friends, and they are friends with a girl, but I make a stupid rule that I can't trust girls with guy friends, then how am I supposed to meet any girl when none of them use dating apps?

[Nikki1989]

Because they don't have much to offer a woman, so they have insecure thoughts about them straying. Quality men don't have such hang-ups.

[Anonymous]

We can have sex whenever we want so guys think we do all the time because they would if they could.

[Anonymous]

Because I personally haven't met one guy in all my travels across America (all but 4 states), who's been married and NOT gotten divorced... when the wife had more male friends than females ones.

[Sasha0426]

Eh, guys find me repulsive. My guy friends wouldn’t even touch me like that.

[Anonymous]

It's not so much that they don't trust the girl, and more that they don't trust the guys.

[dudeinohio]

Because these male "friends" really want sex.

[Monalisa77]

Lol highly doubt that with me😂

[dudeinohio]

You never know

[Monalisa77]

Nah i chat to a guy ejos into it n he's never made any suggestive comments towards me

[BigDog1989]

Why do you think

[jahaims]

Insecurity or her history

[LostA__Aryen18]

competition I guess

[Anonymous]

They’re insecure

[Anonymous]

Insecurities.