Does a guy with low impulse control while clothes shopping indicate he'd be unfaithful?

[Bethany22]

Does it indicate that he'd have low impulse control when attractive women want to have sex with him even though he's married/in a relationship?

[FunkyMonkee]

What does how THEY feel about him have anything to do with him and how HE feels?
I've seen this a time or two before; some girl shows interest in a guy who's already attached and, even though he clearly shows no romantic interest in her at all, his girlfriend gets all over HIS ass because SHE (the other girl) was supposedly flirting with him!
My band mates and I went to a party after rehearsal, one night and I was just sitting in the garage hanging with a few others that were there for the party and I'm just talking to some guy I'd never met before. A while later, some girl in a scooter skirt walks into the garage and starts talking with us. A moment later, the guy's girlfriend walks into the garage and just HAPPENS to catch this girl reach up the back of her skirt and simply adjust the leg holes of her panties. (Stick a finger under each one, run each finger along the elastic next to your ass cheeks to take it out of the rut it seems to have created) I'm guessing they were digging into the cheeks of her ass so, she was doing nothing more than "relieving" herself of that "pain". She just HAPPENED to be standing in front of this guy talking with him at the time about who knows what? Sports, music, the weather, WHATEVER it was, it had NOTHING to do with sex! (I was sitting behind the girl to her right so, I got a good view of what she was doing and it was NOTHING sexual!!) His girlfriend saw her do this and, like she's NEVER done that before, herself, tied into him and started yelling and screaming at HIM because SHE got it in her head that that girl was flirting with HIM! I think she broke up with him then and there! All because some random girl adjusted her panties without even thinking of what she was doing!

[007kingifrit]

no, there are different kinds of low impulse control as sometimes our guards are down during unimportant situations

[Anonymous]

Probably really depends on hai impulse control and what parts of it are bad!

What shopping? Food shopping. Clothes, expensive?

Bad taste or just gets things?

Really I always say take time if your worried. Take time to see if he has it for more things chances are he does and that might mean he would be unfaithful given a chance with a women who just wants a fling.

He might just go for it cause why not?

My sister had her heart test her man with impulse control failed so bad they broke up... Then her impulse control got her back together and pregnant...

[Shy_Steve]

How would that indicate He has low impulse Control if other Girls like him?

Any Guy is capable of Cheating, If he has more options he is more likely to Cheat, If he has less options like a Shy Guy he is less likely to Cheat.

What Confuses us Guys is you Girls seem to be more Attracted to the Guys with the most options like Confident Guys.

[Friendlybro79]

Behind confident is a good trait. Being cocky is not. It's ok to be attracted to a person who is confident and that shouldn't confuse anyone.

[nice-girl]

No, I wouldn't make that connection. Look more for addictions instead.

Cheating, being addicted to alcohol and gambling often do together. So if he has addictions.

Also, look at his family for this. If his father (or even mother and other family members) have those traits, he could have them too.

There is a thing called the "cheater's gene"

[Lionman95]

Not necessarily it's rather an indication that he's not happy or regretting going clothes shopping with a woman. He's probably bored or tired of sitting somewhere and waiting for her to decide what t-shirt, jeans or jacket to buy so he's acting on any distraction that catches his attention.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think the two are connected... you mean because the guy sees something shiny and has to buy it, that he would act on the same impulse when it comes to his sex life?

I sometimes act impulsively when I buy things, but I have self control when it comes to my other head.

[IceCreamSandwich]

Do you mean a guy who stares at women's underwear and bras in that section of the store? I've never seen anyone older than 10 do that, but it could correlate to being more likely to cheat if a grown man did that kind of thing, sure.

[AviatorTom]

So, you're saying if a woman wants to have sex with a married guy, look for a guy with a wedding ring on at the clothes store and a basketful of clothes? Never knew that. You should publish a book on this.

[kylee2437]

Most women do not single handily approach men to have sex with them so if it gets to the point where a man “gave into that” chances are he was already looking else where and initiating such contact

[Friendlybro79]

I don't understand the question or connection.

Low impulse control in what? Just buying whatever he wants? Would you mind rephrasing the question?

[VKN724]

If you don't like the dude's act, say it to his face so he can think about it and potentially correct it. Be ready to face whatever comes afterward.

[OddBeMe]

No. I don’t see a connection with cheating, per se. That’d be like saying a robber has a higher penchant for murder. Not true.

[RealMarek]

There is an inverse correlation between impulsivity and IQ, and for men a positive correlation between impulsivity and cheating. There is a trend, although there are plenty of exceptions.

[slatyb]

No, it doesn't. Low impulse control doesn't imply a lack of ethics.

[ProbablyClueless]

No, that's not a reasonable logical inference to make... although I guess it could be indicative of other riskier life choices.

[loveslongnails]

Hmm, so that's like saying if you can't pass by an ice cream shop without getting a sample, you're likely to cheat on your partner? Fascinating.

[jshm2]

No. It implies he's not going to get a decent woman to begin with.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't see this resulting in a romantic relationship.

[love_conquers_lust]

No idea. I’ll wear clothes tattered & torn. My mother gifts clothes to me more often than I buy for myself.

[Anonymous]

What? That's like asking if a guy would want a red car if he likes chihuahuas

[Kaneki05]

Simple answer nope.