How long can guys be two faced for?

[RoseySarah]

Why is it the worst is when she is in love? You can show her everything but that will just make her care more about him?

My sister is so this way! 4 terrible exes and she was warned about all of them.

3 months

One year

2 years

Online they can be 2 faced forever

Just until caught

[Anonymous]

It's a personality. Eternal. ﾠ

[Leapfrog00]

Psychology, the more someone rejects a girl, the more that girl wants him, and same thing with a guy. People are attached to horrible people because there's a mystery to why they're like this, and people love mystery. It doesn't make their two-faceness excuseable though.

I have a surefire way of telling if someone is two-faced. If I see that person behaving horribly toward other people, chances are they're being two-faced to me.

I think because I'm a writer, my perceptions and observational skills are clearer.

I know this girl who hooks up with this guy once a week, and he is always making rude remarks, and the other day he told her he has higher expectations of her.

He claims he has feelings for her but he can't be with her in a relationship because she's known as 'The girl in his hometown who was raped'.

In my opinion, I think he's just keeping her around because of the sex. My guess is the reason why people keep two-faced people around is because they're afraid of being alone. I prefer being a lonely introvert because some of the girls I dated were so possessive! Lol

[dynamicyandere]

Psychopaths and sociopaths can be two-faced for their entire lives. If you want to really get to know someone, you need to observe their actions very carefully. It’s uncomfortable to be inauthentic for too long though, and that’s where you’ll find cracks in their facade. Similar to a celebrity that always puts on a character and then accidentally breaks character.

[RoseySarah]

Actually I knew a sociopath she was wonderful until you crossed her. She was an EMT passed away helping others!
Most sociopaths are not bad but really depends how they are raised.

Yeah most druggys are the other and crazy 🤣. that or people who need their pain meds which is more sad then anything

[dynamicyandere]

True true, most sociopaths are functional law-abiding members of society and don’t necessarily hide behind facades. 🤔

Then there are those that do hide behind a facade and are pretty good at doing it. 🧐

Oh yeah, people on meds or off meds (when they should be on meds), that’s opening a whole other can of worms. 😅

[_Maya_]

Oh they can be as long as they want to and as long as they are getting what they want. Same goes for girls too. There are plenty of both gender that can be two faced. My ex was like that. I found out after a while the reason he was dating me was because in his mind dating a bi girl = threesomes with two chicks or at the very least watching me with a girl. It became really apparent after some months passed. Yet he was really sweet to me and trying to butter me up at the same time.

[RoseySarah]

Yeah that comes pretty clear sadly.
Though other things are often hidden until you get to thier bedroom.

One of my exes boasted how much he hated anal yet when we got to his room all he wanted was anal.

I thought he wanted to cuddle and hold me till he tried to cuff me to the bed!

Every one in school knew I gave him that beating an mocked him for it. He had to leave that school cause of it

Wish he got worse though I'm sure another poor women got raped by him.

The police never do anything but make us feel dumb for assuming he was trust worthy

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Sorry to hear it Maya! ! I think you've got a pretty awesome significant other now :-)

[_Maya_]

@MiddleAgedClimbee thanks and yeah she is awesome! Could not be happier.

[KostasKouvalis]

There is no general standard. It varies from person to person. But usually the person is cautious at first because they want to impress and be liked, but after a while once they think they have you and feel a sense of security, they'll start feeling too comfortable, and that's when their true colors start showing.

[RoseySarah]

Very true

[KostasKouvalis]

Also, it works both ways. Women can be two faced as well

[ProbablyClueless]

I've had male friends that turned out to be two-faced to my face for years and years on end before I pieced everything together. In one case, it was over a decade before I realized how badly this dude was sabotaging me.

[RoseySarah]

Often they do sabotage us

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah man... it was a whole weird thing with him. He was obsessed with my approval and desperately wanted me around while also talked lots of shit on me and blatantly betrayed my confidence on more occasions than I can count.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think they can be two-faced their entire lives, unless someone teaches them a lesson or they actually fall in love with someone who then reciprocates their 2-faced behavior.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Keep in mind that either gender can be two-faced.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I also think the reasons which are behind the two-faced behavior must be assessed.

[RoseySarah]

Lol reproaches Thier behavior?

People don't change that relationship just ends at best in divorce

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Reciprocate their behavior. If a pair of two faced people meet, and one of them falls for the other, that could be a way to learn a very harsh lesson.

[RoseySarah]

That would be a TV show! 😂

[Still-alive]

They can do it forever. You should probably avoid such individuals who act that way.

[RoseySarah]

Usually do if I can hard to tell especially coworkers

[Still-alive]

yeah two faced coworkers and bosses are the worst. i'd just try to avoid them as much as possible if you can. just focus on your work.

[RoseySarah]

Usually they show it after a customer comes and leaves. They whine how much they hate the person who they were so nice and helpful to.

[Friendlybro79]

Do you think we all have a timeline that we can hold two faces for because we're all two faced and have exactly the same intentions? However many billion of us there are?

There's no way to answer this. Sorry if you and your sister have had bad experiences dating but we're all not two faced.

[Apple1996]

They can be that way their whole life

[RoseySarah]

Sure seems like it! My coworkers can bw

[FunkyMonkee]

Just as long as girls can!

[RoseySarah]

Lol asked about girls too bring even

[lightbulb27]

until they learn, and that requires enough pain , effort, awareness.

[Yannae]

Until caught until we break.

[236color]

Forever