Why would he ghost me after we had such good chemistry?

[Anonymous]

I mean he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and he wasn't trying to get hurt again but we talked about it and agreed to take things slow. But now he hasn't opened my message in like 15 hours and I feel played because i really liked him and I thought he really liked me too. 😔 I even told him if he wasn't feeling it we can communicate that but I guess not.

Updates

7 mo

So I found out why he ghosted me apparently his homeboy was on tinder and he found my account and it said active. Mind you I haven't been on tinder at all since I been talking to this guy. But now he thinks I'm messing around and lying and playing with his heart. He doesn't trust me and he said he's done 😭💔 he said told me to give him some time but I know he is just going to leave regardless. 😔😭

[devilish-cutie]

Nothing is your fault, its all his issues, how could you give him chances but he cannot trust you as well? He is just making excuses cause he has issues. Im sorry this is happening to you but unless this guy shows true effort and changed behavior dont bother with him.

[ManOnFire]

Sorry for your pain. I understand you had hopes but if he's just not reciprocating then you have to leave him to it. It's not wrong how he feels, and it's not wrong how you feel either. It's just a situation that isn't working out. He might decide later on to talk again, but I don't think you would want somebody who will disappear and them come back again when they feel like it.

[Tim2nice]

I wouldn’t know what’s on his mind or what’s happening in his life, but if it makes you feel better, I sometimes take days to respond to messages.

[Holsen]

Maybe you should give him some time as he seems in a dilema and unsure;furthermore there are also people who are just late with texts or dont respond immediately or even shortly so don’t lose hopes and try to cheer up!!

[Asker]

He used to respond within a minute. I know he has his phone on him but I guess I should just cut my losses 😔

[Holsen]

Well words can run out too you know like I really struggle to keep a long conversation going or just find it hard to continue conversations so it’s possible;anyway I suggest you have one final talk with him so you can move on peacefully and calmly having settled things!!

[Staximus]

Either he's a bitch boy or a fuck boy

[Asker]

Yeah I guess so I can't believe my dumbass would believe him when he said he wasn't like that 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😔

[Staximus]

Or he's just a coward