I’ve had a couple exes that could not trust me. No matter how much I tried to reassure them. One cheated on me because he said he didn’t trust me. They’ve mentioned my looks many times, so I’m wondering if that had a part to play with their insecurities?
Trust is based on things much deeper than just appearance. My girlfriend back in high school was wayy out of my league, like cutest in the school kind of league. At first I couldn't believe that I'd got with her and never thought it would last, but she proved her commitment to the relationship and we quickly built trust in each other. We were together for 3 years and separated mutually after we graduated and moved to different states. We still keep in touch and I still trust her as one of my closest friends.
It's nothing to do with looks, it's all behavior and personality. Some people just don't give off trustworthy vibes.
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That's the most hilarious rationalization I've heard in a long time. LOL Let's unpack that:
*** " I'm insecure to start with, and you being good looking makes it worse because I can't figure out why you'd want to be with me. Therefore, you MUST be cheating on me with someone as good looking as yourself, so that means it's ok if I cheat too".That's just brilliant! Allow me to blame my own securities on your good looks! LOL If it did play a part in why they're ex's, you dodged some bullets.
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normally i would say more attractive the woman= more opportunities to cheat but when it comes to mens it doesn't make all that much differences a highly attractive girl will still attract many more unwanted mutt around her but nowadays guys will fuck everyone with a hole so there is no trusting girls this day, just take your fill and go to your way.
Nope my ex was really beautiful, a lot of my friends admitted after we broke up together that they actually liked her as well. She also got loads of attention everywhere we went but she showed me time after time again that she wasn't enjoying all the attention and I completely trusted her 100%
The question is worded wrong. It's not that the more beautiful the woman is the less men trust her. It's that in general the more beautiful the woman is the less trustworthy she is. There is no such thing as an attractive woman with a heart of gold.😆
I wouldn't necessarily say that -- I'd say, 'The more beautiful the woman, the harder you're going to have to work, just to be seen in public with her'
no, if I dont trust someone it is for good reason.
i base this more on behavior than looks. so not true for me
There seems to be some truth to that. Some men don't think that they can hold on to a real looker.
I'd say those men are very very insecure.
false...
also, nonsenseNot me. I have no trust issues
It's her actions, not her looks, for me.
So true!!
Nah.
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