How do I get over a person I made so many beautiful memories with and now changed completly is not the person he used to be?

[Anonymous]

There is a man at work I made a lot of beautiful memories with him all summer long, we had always so much fun or I even could share any of my sorrows with him. He was always there no matter where i was. Yesterday after leaving work, I started crying remembering our good times together, and when he used to say good morning every morning, which i miss a lot too. Or when we used to be goofey with each other. Seeing him now and seeing him change really touches my heart, since this one woman came to our workspace he has become a completly different person. He only kind of interacts with me when she is not there (but not like we used to interact) and when she is there im like invisible to him. I did try avoid him one time we didn't talk to each other 2 weeks, and everytime i would come to his office, he would close his eyes when seeing me. Or now i try avoid him and just move on because I miss the old him and this new him I don't want it and it's seriously hard he try talk to me and when I don't respond he forces himself into my life and its gets so hard to move on. I mean if he likes this girl in office (and they even always eat lunch together, no one else does this at our job only the 2) So what he want from me why not just leave me alone? I really think he like her

[_Maya_]

Were you dating this guy over the summer or just hanging out with him? If you were just friends then you shouldn't have to get over anything because you should be able to stay friends. Sure it will be different since he likes this other girl and starts dating. Naturally the focus will be on her. All you can do is give it time. That is the number one thing that helps get over someone. I am still not clear if you were just friends or dating but either way you just need to give it the time it needs and eventually you will come to peace with things.

[lightbulb27]

you lost him to her.

you probably have to... accept what you had, be thankful, accept the loss and remove them from your sight as much as possible, turn your mind to what is next.

doesn't sound like fighting for him is plausible. the early bird gets the worm... but it's the aggressive bird that gets there first!

[BoopBoopBeep]

I spent 8 years with someone and that's how we ended. I'm sorry for your loss. You just gotta accept it and move on.