I know there's a reason, everything has a reason.. but there isn't an apparent, obvious reason.
For example, it could be because he wants to explore his other options, but he can explore his options while still following me 😅 soo that can't be why..
please enlighten me.
I have done nothing but loving him, telling him how much I care, not having any boundaries, taking him back time after time, expressed that I wanted to do all the cooking and all the cleaning for him when we date, take care of him.. I always tell him how sexy he is, how much wet he makes me, he's the hottest man on earth etc..
I never fought with him, I'm always happy when he talks to me.. I always waited for him... yeah.. kinda sounds bad? But that's not the point... my question is the point.
I'm in my 20s, I look good.. he's in his late 40s.. we aren't dating, although sometime we act like we do...
What Guys Said
Some guys can't handle commitment
That's honestly 100% what I always thought.. he needs space or smtg...
THUS WHY, I specifically asked him of he wanted space, he answered "clingy pleeaasee" .. I also asked him if he preferred that I don't have feelings for him since he don't wanna commit, or if he prefers that I be in love with him, he answered that he prefers that I be in love with him and have feelings... I was so happy that I jokingly said "marry me" and hearted the "marry me" ...
Which confuses me...
He would also tell me that "he really likes me.. miss me.." etc... and then I go silent for some time...
Correction: I asked him "if" he wanted space or if he prefer if I'm clingy.. he answered clingy...
And I asked him many times. His answer was always the same...
He also said that he doesn't likes it but loves it.
And loves that im obsessed with him..
I specifically asked "like or love it?" He said loves it..
He answered "clingy pleaseeee" .. he added the please..
He likes that he has that power over you, like it turns him on seeing you desperate.