My coworker situationship lied about not texting with another chick from work.
I noticed him being active at the same time with her for hours. He also deleted his conversation in front of me. I asked him many times what's going on... so I can move on or get clarity. He denied hiding something, he acted like I'm paranoid... Basically gaslighted me. I know what I saw. I don't get why would he do that, we aren't actually in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It makes no sense to me at all.
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The same reason u felt the need to ask when u are not boyfriend/girlfriend he lied because he didn't want the drama that would come from telling the truth
The reason was because I wanted clarity... he didn't give me clarity... only lies. I don't get the urge to lie when you are not even in a committed relationship.
What did u need clarity on when your not together asking shows u care about who he talks too
I do care because he is giving me mixed signals.
But this is my point u keep making comments like we are not together why wpuld he lie but clearly u are pretending like u don't care as much as u do if he is giving u mix signals more likely them not he is trying to prolong this situation as much as he can and not rock the boat so that why he would lie