Will a guy still want me if I’m 29/30 and still a virgin? I didn’t date much in my 20s and I’m shy. Is this fine?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey luv don't even sweat that virgin thing, a'ight? Sure maybe most folks do stuff earlier these days but so what. Every person moves at their own pace, and what really matters is that you find the right person when you're ready.

Don't let anyone shame you for waitin til you meet someone special or til you feel totally comfortable. That's real smart if you ask me - your first time should be with someone you really care about. Save it for a dude worthy of your awesomeness!

Look, you're still young as hell too. Barely even 30 so don't count yourself out yet. And trust, once you put yourself out there guys are gonna be all over you no matter what. Your personality and beauty will shine right through.

Any dude worth your time ain't gonna give a single crap how much "experience" you got. All that matters is the connection you two have. I guarantee if a guy cares about you for real, he'll think your shyness is adorable and be honored to be your first.

So don't you even stress it, you hear me? You do you, keep being your sweet self, and the right person will come along when you least expect it. till then, hold your head high knowing you saved the best gift for the one lucky enough to earn it. I know you're gonna find an amazing guy!

[Asker]

Thank you so much! 🙂

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure boo 😊🌹🌹🌹

[Anonymous]

I’d say you should be ok. For me though as an older man I’d want to know why? Very rare to find a girl who is almost 30 who is a virgin. I don’t think I’d wonder so much if it was a dude who was 30, still a virgin. Because I understand as a man there’s a lot of men who have never had sex before because they don’t have the looks, or the finances or whatever the case may be. Most women don’t even look a man’s way of he’s fat, ugly, etc. On the other hand most women can still get sex w someone dude even if she isn’t the best looking because men are always trying to get laid. So to me it throws up a red flag.

[236color]

Have you seen all these guy complaining "where are all the virgins". Now truthfully, I would be very skeptical of a man that is mainly concerned with your virginity. I'm concerned these guy are insecure and have there head rapped up in a fucked up view of masculinity. If you are just looking for somebody to be your first, it shouldn't be too hard. When I was single, I wasn't looking for a virgin, but I wouldn't turn one down.

[bededazzle]

everything in the spectrum of human experience is fine. you just need to find the right guy. to make sure this happens, it will be helpful to let go of such insecurities. for instance, maybe someone would tell you this is strange. but, well, fuck that person. see what i mean? lol

[SotiCoto]

If you have a vagina, someone will always want you. The numbers might dwindle once you're past 50, but until that point it shouldn't actually be difficult to find someone who wants you.

HOWEVER... no guarantees regarding quality. A lot of guys are just terrible. And the older you get, the more you're likely to be left with desperate, potentially terrible guys.

[Berethor]

Virgin girls are best, and it rare to find a virgin at that age, ya it's fine.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[exitseven]

okay, it will not make any difference and some guys would see it as a plus. Just find somebody that you like and go out on a few dates and when you feel ready and he feels ready maybe you have it.

[aceleon]

just hit a jackpot and doesn't want it? he is either a cuck or just wants sex and fun. virgin womans for life baby.

[DextroShade]

Virginity is desirable but you are getting to an age where it is starting to look like there might be something wrong with you. Wasting your best years is simply not a good look, whether you gave it away to everyone or no one.

[ColHathi]

Absolutely. To me, the age and body count doesn't matter, and I'm shy too, so something like that would probably just appeal to me, if anything.

[ohmyguy]

Yup... you would be totally fine.. I think. That too much sex ruins the male female dynamics... n has us mentally an emotially out of sync..
The fewer peak in pandoras box the better

[JacobJordan]

You'll be fine. You have higher odds than nearly all modern women today

[BourbonAndBacon]

It's perfectly fine. LOTS of guys would be interested in you

[ThrillSeeker01]

Nothing wrong with that. You're personality is what counts.

[SunnyRS]

Yes it is definitely fine.
It is not an issue to be stressed about luv.

[Pterodon]

The love of my life was a 29 year old virgin

[Tim2nice]

It’s absolutely fine

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep and kinda rare too

[Gezbelle]

You are fine. Don't worry

[shortster]

I would date someone like that.

[Anonymous]

Saving it for marriage for many years?

[NP234]

Yes this is fine