I want an attractive boyfriend but all the attractive guys always know prettier girls. Will guys always pick the prettier girl?

[Anonymous]

As l find the guy attractive I don't care about choosing the MOST attractive guy. I just want someone cute with a good personality but guys always click best with the prettiest girl. I'm pretty but not the prettiest. Its so discouraging because every cute or even half decent guy is following 50 billion women on social media or hangsot with cool beautiful women. I can even try with guys like that because you know it's a losing battle.

They always click better because men put more effort for the prettiest woman making it near impossible not to connect.

Will men always pick the prettiest girl?

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3 mo

can’t*** even try with guys like that.

[MrOracle]

There's a REASON that people tend to end up with people on their level (and I don't JUST mean looks, but looks are certainly a factor).

EVERYTHING in life is a double-edged sword, meaning there are good sides and bad sides to everything. A good-looking guy might impress your friends or improve your status on IG, or just make you happy for a little while, but a good-looking guy is also going to be getting lots of attention from other girls - and the better looking he is, the more attention he'll get, and it rises exponentially - so the best looking guys don't even get into relationships at all, they just use a girl (or girls) until they get bored or until the girl becomes a hassle in some way, at which point he'll dump her and bring in a new one. But NONE of them get a commitment, and the only ones who last longer than a weekend are the ones who give him whatever he wants - including other girls.

A less good-looking guy probably won't impress your friends as much, nor will he raise your IG status, but you're probably not going to have girls stepping over you to throw themselves at him either. And such a guy is FAR more likely to be interested in a relationship, and far more likely to take it seriously. I'm not saying you need to pick a troll from under a bridge, but rather that a more "average" looking guy is far likelier to have the morals, values, and life-goals that can make you a whole lot happier in the long run.

I promise you, no matter how hot a guy is and no matter how turned on you are by him at first, if he's cheating on you, ignoring you, going out without you, putting you down, etc., the fact that he's hot is NOT going to make you feel any better about him. Ask your friends why THEY are no longer with the hot guys from their past, and see what they have to say. If "hot" was enough to make a good relationship, they'd still be with the hot guy - but none of them are.

You can do whatever you want to do with your life, and it makes little difference to me, but YOU will suffer the consequences of YOUR decisions. If you pick a guy based on his looks, rather than on his morals, values, and life-goals, then you will be happy for a brief period likely followed by uncertainty, disappointment, depression, and anger. Again, just watch how your girl friends' relationships work out, and see if I'm right. I assure you, I'll be right the majority of the time.

In any case, your results are YOUR responsibility, because it will be YOU who chooses these men. Good outcomes come from good decisions, and bad outcomes from bad decisions when selecting your partners. Remember that: it WILL become relevant sooner or later.

[Pohjolan]

You are still young and can become more pretty if you want to.

Even facial bone structure can be improved to a extent by eating less processed (harder) foods.

[Anonymous]

Hold yourself to the same standards you hold others to.

[Anonymous]

it helps to be hot but most important is i think u need to be how you actually wanna be

[Opinion Owner]

in my opinion its about self esteem. i read somewhere that self esteem is high or low in relation to how your actual self matches the idealized

[Opinion Owner]

the competing is a losing battle because there will always be somebody hotter