My boyfriends female colleague has tried video call him after work hours and at the weekend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a female colleague that he recently worked with. Recently, I’ve noticed several video call requests popping up on WhatsApp on his phone from her after work hours and this weekend too. I’m a little concerned about this. I don’t know why she’d want to video call unless she wanted to show him work? I haven’t told my boyfriend that I noticed. Should I ask him?

[Anonymous]

You could. But you’re going to make it worse than it is, especially if it turns out to be nothing. For one you went through his phone, a big no no. He’s not going to be happy for one. Especially if he hasn’t done anything wrong. You’re telling him I don’t trust you. Has he done things in the past to make you not trust him? Maybe someone else has done something for you to not trust men, but he isn’t that person. Either you trust him or you leave. Let’s say something is going on w her, then what? You leaving or staying?

[laly520]

just ask him about it

[Anonymous]

Depends, do you trust him?