Guy's Behavior
3 mo

Is this a red flag?

My boyfriend (25) and me (21f) have been together for nearly 2 months now. We both made plans to get back into fitness separately but at the same time. I've done my first 6 workouts at home, really pushing myself. He did 1, but then got ill, he thought it was serious but the doctors said it was just a viral infection. Its been 2 weeks since then, he's feeling better but still hasn't worked out like he said he would.

He told me he was going to quit his job at the end of January, because he hated it but now he's putting it off because he was off ill. He said he'd have to be working at least 2 weeks before he feels like he can quit. His room is being redone and his mom kinda took over and payed for eveyhting. He didn't pay for the furniture, nor did he help decorate his room. He told me before our last date that id see him with his hair freshly cut. But it wasn't. He says he gets it cut once every six months , he kets it grow out, his beard too. He said he'll have it cut for our next date but I'm unsure. He always shows up for dates and is very kind but his word and intentions are losing meaning to me. Are these red flags or bad timing?

Is this a red flag?
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