Long term relationship & sending dirty pics/texts when we are apart?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly 20 years now- we are both early 40s, WFH, no kids & what I consider an active & very kinky/experimental sex life. So given that, I thought he would be down with the idea. Instead he rejected it and said that was for when we were early in dating & should've done it then. I’ll admit I was definitely more reserved when we first dated and am WAY more sexual now…. But it just struck me as weird? Just wanted other opinions on it…

[NYlatefun]

He may be concerned with data privacy. Maybe he is afraid someone would steal your pics.
tbh it’s a lot of fun to do it lol

[Asker]

Maybe but idk- most of our stuff is locked down like Ft Knox lol- right? I keep telling him that!

[NYlatefun]

lol yeah, but maybe that stresses him out! You know, having the big guy traveling around the cyberspace! Lol

[Asker]

Hahaha maybe- I don't know though, we are both umm… not shy about people seeing… but again random people we won’t ever see again in our large city seeing and someone managing to get a picture for themselves are two different things I guess

[NYlatefun]

Exactly!

[Avicenna]

Probably didn't trust where these pics might end up

[Asker]

You’re prob right

[Anonymous]

You don’t need to send nudes

[Asker]

Well no, but I WANT to 😏😏

[Opinion Owner]

Moral values

[Asker]

Not sure what that has to do with morals?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s big time has to do with it

[Asker]

Care to explain?

[Opinion Owner]

Sending out nude pictures is that honorable come on? Do I really need to explain to you?

[Asker]

I appreciate your concern for my honor- but it isn’t like it’s just some random person and also, I feel like that’s a bit judgy given that you don’t know me.

[Opinion Owner]

People don’t do that with good more values

[Asker]

Wow…. just gonna leave it there because I was taught to keep my mouth shut if I didn’t have anything nice to say… clearly you weren’t taught the same lesson.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m trying to help you, so you don’t continue on like this

[In_Trance]

Yeah that is weird

[Asker]

I think so too- the reason he gave initially was because of someone accidentally seeing, or he’s driving, etc - but I feel like that could be solved with a text right before that kinda gives a heads up what’s coming? And if you’re driving just check it when you aren’t? Idk- trying not to get too in my head over it but it’s hard

[In_Trance]

Hope it works out for you

[Asker]

Thanks