Why would a guy send a long paragraph before I’ve even met him?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been talking for a few days and he sent a long paragraph to me over text about how he’s worried I don’t want anything serious, that I don’t like him and I’m just having fun.

[Summeroflove]

I think he has a lot of feelings and a lot of feelings he needs to express. I think the best way to know… is to reach out to him and ask him why he sent it to you. He was the one who sent it. He’s communicating with you. Communicate with him and ask questions.

[Asker]

I have, to which he said he didn’t want to talk about it and switched the conversation then refused to explain why

[Summeroflove]

Well in that case I don’t really know what to say. Is that what you’re doing to him? Because if it’s not. Then tell him. But if he doesn’t believe you. Maybe it’s time to start moving on.

Especially because some people project. Maybe he isn’t projecting. Maybe he’s a great guy. But if trust is gone. Maybe it’s best for both of you to find someone new

[Asker]

The main problem is we haven’t even met yet and he’s being this full on!

[Summeroflove]

Yeah asker. This is why I caution people on meeting online. Someone can seem like a good upstanding person. Until you meet them. Maybe if you are feeling uncomfortable you should break it off and meet in real life

[Tharithi]

Lol 😂 he’s trapping u

[Anonymous]

Dude sounds very weird to me.