If men don’t care about a woman’s career should I just never bring it up on dates? Should I even just quit my job and pretend I’m stupid?

Anonymous

For real though. I’m a software engineer and I love what I do but anyway I wonder if I should quit because apparently it’s not attractive to men and I want to be married. Is it unattractive if a girl is smart and talks about things she loves to do?

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1 mo
Maybe I need clarification. Are guys just saying they don’t really take into consideration the “prestige” of a woman’s job when deciding to date her? It’s not that they don’t care if she has things going for her but rather there are other values they consider above the career?
If men don’t care about a woman’s career should I just never bring it up on dates? Should I even just quit my job and pretend I’m stupid?
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