What are the signs that he can't let you go?

[fairytale]

Is it possible that he can't let you go but behaves in a way that makes you break up with him, so he doesn't have to deal with it?

[twinson]

So, when you're dealing with someone who can't seem to let you go but is also pushing you toward a breakup, it's like being on a rollercoaster you didn't sign up for. They might be all over the place with their affection, really warm one day and then ice cold the next. It's confusing, right? You start to feel like you're always guessing what's next.

And then, there's the whole thing with communication. Maybe they're not reaching out as much, or when you do spend time together, it feels like they're not all there. It's as if they're trying to create this distance without actually saying they want to. Plus, the arguments. It's like suddenly everything's an issue, and you're left wondering where all this tension is coming from.

Sometimes, they might drop hints about needing space or question the relationship, almost like they're hoping you'll take the hint and make the tough decision for them. And if you've noticed they shy away from talking about anything that involves planning a future together, it's another sign they're stuck in this limbo of not wanting to let go but also not wanting to fully commit.

Being in this situation is tough because you're picking up on all these mixed signals, trying to figure out what they really want without much to go on.

[Finchie40]

If he is treating you like an option and not treating you like a priority? Than that should be your answer to let him go The only way a relationship will last the long haul , is if both people make each other their top priority , it won’t always be perfect , because no one on this planet is perfect , it’s clearly impossible to find someone that thinks exactly alike at all times. Understand if you want someone to accept your flaws, you have to accept theirs as well. As long as the flaws have nothing to do with jeopardizing the relationship you both chose to be in. Every single one of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove selfishness for you. Most people have a hard time admitting to themselves that they were wrong , it’s always someone else’s’ fault but never their own. When someone has that selfish mindset , they will never experience true love with anyone , because they only think they are right at all times. No one is always right. Relationships mainly fail because of this selfish mindset. Why it’s best to wear your partners’ shoes before making decisions, we can all easily be selfish , when you learn to remove selfishness for your partner , it makes it easier for your partner to remove it for you. It’s ok to admit that you are wrong at times , why honesty is important in any relationship, if you can’t be honest with your partner , don’t expect them to be honest with you. Keeping lies and secrets from your partner is only hurting yourself , because you are holding in those lies and secrets for Your own selfish benefit , you will never feel happy or content with someone, if you are constantly keeping secrets from them. Sadly that’s where most insecurities come from , when you are lying to yourself and your partner , and you aren’t able to be honest. You only want things to go your way , you don’t consider your partners’ feelings as well, You basically want your cake and want to eat it to. Making you a selfish person

[TommyMountainFigure]

Oh that's a VERY weak stance for anyone to have. It makes me think of when shooters kill loads of people, then aim a gun at police because they are too scared of the long term consequences, and too scared to shoot themselves!
I have very little time for cowards.

[SolitarySolace]

He doesn’t want to let you go because he knows how difficult it is to find someone. Probably doesn’t want to end up resentful or dead inside like most men which will happen either way.

[V_Injector]

I need a baby sock. ... but a pack of them always due.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Clinging hugs? Not on bearhug levels 🐻 and endless showering of gifts 🚿 🎁

[OtterMan68]

he's a stalker. If you break up with him, and he can't let go, that's a red flag

[Jay-_-]

Does he want to break up with you or no this question confuses me a little, elaborate.

[Jay-_-]

He either wants to break up with you or not.

[NathanDavis]

that sounds toxic AF...

[laly520]

yea he needs therapy