My mom always tells me that guys are too shy in high school to make the first move, But I don't know if this is true, confirm for me please? Do females have to make the first move to a guy during this time?
The whole feminist movement has made men feel like they are going to be required to register as a sex offender if they show any hint of sexual interest towards women.
Some men just aren’t aware of how women show they are open to being approached. Or, maybe these guys have social anxiety. Maybe these guys find it difficult to hold a woman’s attention. Especially at a bar or club. Bars and clubs are full of other men competing for the same women. That can be intimidating for some men. However, if a shy guy is in a more comfortable environment, it would be easier for them to approach and come out of their shell so to speak.
Not all but many and it's not just highschool guys it true for all ages. Many guys are not but many are. I'm extra shy myself, too much honestly I will admit, the good ones usually are because they don't want to come off as. Creep or bother you. Or in some cases we let our past bad experiences ruin future chances.
A lot are, but some guys especially jocks and popular guys have no problem making the first move
You both need to meet each other halfway out on that scary limb.
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No. Guys are acutely aware of the level of commitment/interest of MOST women today. Most women don't really want any guy. Most women simply want a fan club. Most women are simply pick me girls. So guys are evolving into 2 groups. 1. F***boys, guys who are not selective at all and completely non commital. Each woman is a target to them. And 2. Guys who are hyper selective. These guys are hyper commital but only the women who truly earn his interest get it. Given the nature of women it's really no surprise why men are becoming less and less active in courting and women less and happy about it.
In school? I use to get rejected all the time. Partly I think because I always fancied girls who were in the older classes. Did it stop me asking them out? Heck no. I just didn't like girls who were my own age!
I think though it is much easier for girls to ask boys out, because boys are less likely to refuse them.
Yes, to be frank, good men does not make the first move infact, the players goes for it. Don't generalise it. Like im a decent person i will start conversation if the signal is clear enough otherwise i dont want lose my status doing any mistake...
This would be really
Embarrassing
I was for a very long time. Probably until a year or 2 ago, now I just don't care.
This is 100% true though and it's getting worse with how easy tinder and other apps are and how awkward an approach on public can be at times. Guys are terrified
Yes and no. Some dudes are too shy. Women never really have to understand what it’s like to go through this as they aren’t the ones who are expected to. Some women do ask, but very few. On the other hand dudes don’t want to get caught up in some accusation. Also a lot of men these days just don’t see women as worth the chase. They’re tired of them.
I don’t think it’s only shyness it’s fear of what she could do legally if she feels the slightest bit threatened. It’s ridiculous.
Too many chicks are. Lol 👀😋😈 so because none of them have the tits (like saying a man doesn't have the balls) to ask me out, I'm single happily and merrily single I remain ♂️♂️♂️👀😎
u Your mother is overgeneralizing.
Ask yourself this: is every girl in your high school alike? Of course not. So why would you think that every guy in high school is alike?
Many are. Your age means that you must be a senior. If you like some guy, invite him to do something with you.
Some guys are shy, some guys are more out going, so they don't care of they are rejected. It takes a lot to put yourself out there to make a move or to spike up a conversation to see if your compatible.
They are only “shy” with the girls they don’t find attractive
Lots of handsome guys are afraid of rejection (Yours Truly in a nutshell), so they tend to be shy about making the first move.
Not shy but scared.
today every girl sees everything sexual assaulting, so they want to stay out of touble
Some are shy some are just worried theyll be rejected
Not shy but they know the end results. That's why they avoid.
Shy no, scared shitless thier gonna get a face full of pepper spray and hauled off to jail yes
It depends on the guy. Some are too shy and some are not.
You should make the first move if you like someone.
some are
some aren't
Are girls really too shy to make the first move?
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