How do I go about this, he messaged me and I ignored?

Anonymous

The other night my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem, drank too much and disrespected me and made fun of my disabled child. I came to his house and brought food for us (didn’t know his drinking friends would be there). He was yelling at me and they could hear it outside. They left to get more drinks and he didn’t want to help me with dinner and hid in his room until they came back. This hurt. Then later is when he made fun of my child. He then asked if he can sleep at their house and he left me to go and continue drinking at his friend’s house. (He gave them money for the drinks).

He messaged me yesterday saying hey and later said let me know when you want to talk. I’m still upset about what happened. I’m actually really mad about his behaviour and what he said about my child.

When he drinks, he’s horrible. He’s sprayed water in my face. Broke things in his house out of anger, yells, lied to me about an std.

I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be rude and ignore him but I need to think about what to do. I’m heartbroken that he said that and that he left.

How do I go about this, he messaged me and I ignored?
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