How can a guy go from a loving girl he really likes then go to an easy girl then back to the loving girl?

[Anonymous]

He loves her now and only seeing her and told her he's not seeing anyone else. He had told her that he was with two easy girls sometime mid last year.. one at two different times then comes back around to the girl he really likes, then now loves the girl he really likes. was he thinking the loving girl was with someone else... what could he had been thinking.. to go that way.. how could he even come back around to the loving girl he realizes he loves. Does he feel guilty after he was with the easy girls. asking for some of us grls.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's definitely a weird situation. As a guy, I can try to offer some perspective on what might have been going through his head, but it's hard to say for sure.

When a guy really likes a girl, sometimes we get scared of our feelings and don't know how to handle it all. It seems like with this loving girl, maybe he felt those strong emotions really early on and it scared him a bit. So going to be with those other "easy" girls was a way for him to kind of distract himself and not have to deal with the intensity of his real feelings.

Deep down though, I think he always knew the loving girl was special. That's probably why he kept coming back to her even after being with others. But it took him making those mistakes to fully realize what he had. Now that some time has passed, he's matured enough to be able to handle the relationship properly.

As for feeling guilty, I'm sure part of him does look back and regret hurting her like that. But another part wants to make things right and doesn't want to lose her forever.

The best thing is that he's being honest now about his past. All anyone can do is learn from their mistakes. If he's treating her well and she believes he's changed, maybe it's worth giving him another chance. But I can understand why she'd be wary too after being hurt before. It's a tough call.

[Berethor]

The guy knows that the loving girl would forgive him for using the easy girls for sex.

[laly520]

short answer is he doesn't know what he wants or knows well what he is doing thus played both of girls

[jahaims]

He can't. He's not in love.