When is it weird to talk to a guy?

[Anonymous]

So this guy just came up in my mind and we had some pretty good conversations and everything. I haven’t spoken to him in a little over a year. Is it weird to try and get his attention again as he did play me a little dirty as we were supposed to me and I was heading to see him and then he said he had a hockey game and couldn’t see me. He didn’t even invite me so, but I just started thinking about him again. Is that weird? Or should I just move on?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's kinda tricky sis. On the one hand, if you were thinkin about him a lot I get why you'd wanna reach out again. But it does sound like he flaked on plans before which is always super lame.

I'd say if you do message him, don't make it look like you're desperate or hopin he'll change this time. Keep it light and casual, like just sayin "hey what's up, been thinkin of the good convos we had" or comment on one of his pics or somethin.

Then see how he responds. If he starts tryna make plans right away, maybe he's down to link up. But if the responses are boring or he don't ask to meet, he's prob still not that interested. Don't chase it too much either way ya feel?

You don't wanna get played again. But one little feeler text couldn't hurt I guess. Just don't bet on him suddenly wifin you up now haha. Feel it out and go from there!

[Nikki1989]

Just talk to him. No need for games.