Guys, why don't white guys try to flirt with me?

[MissYessi]

When I go out, only black and Hispanics flirt with me. White guys don't even look at me. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a type, I like all types. The thing I don't understand is why don't white guys try to flirt with me, if they do.. they'll get their friend to talk to me first. Same with Asians. Are they only into they're own race? I want to experience more, but I don't want to look like a dumb ass trying to flirt with a guy that I'm trying to "get to know" and he is giving all these weird signals. I am Hispanic by the way.

[Tula1]

I'm not white but get more interest from white guys than any other race. What I find is they tend to be more indirect and it takes them longer to ask a girl out especially one who is a different race. It's not abnormal that I'll start to sense he likes me but won't have anything concrete to go on for several months. I have to be intentional about showing him interest back or he gets really confused. Also, I've had a lot of guys take me out to eat, pay for it and such but have never declared an interest. When I start to treat them like friends only, they get upset and go into hiding for awhile.

The point, many white guys probably like you but because you don't know what to look for you miss it. Surprisingly, it's often the guy who engages you the least and won't look at you. I'm way older than you and it never ceases to amaze me how much they revert to junior high. I'm just waiting to be pushed in the sand box.

Other races reward and see it as masculine to go after the girl and try to pretend it doesn't hurt if she brushes them off. White male egos are more obviously fragile. Many times, they have to get to a place to be assured they won't be turned down.

[Brando]

White boys just aren't taught and brought up the same way that a lot of black and Hispanic men are. Black moms are an absolute charm, I love them to death. They are sweet, nice women but just don't cross them or p*ss them off. Otherwise, they'll watch out for you. But black and Hispanic women tend to bring their sons up in this less sheltered type of environment than white people do. I don't know how many black women I've seen that were really outgoing, and this spilled over onto their kids both directly and indirectly. And with Hispanic women, they are just strong women. They're fine being mothers and wives, but they can still lay down the hammer when need be.

So yeah, black and Hispanic men seem (to me) to be raised with a better sense of confidence and self-assured behavior when going out into the world. That's my guess why.

[Mr_Sensative]

So true. I kinda wish I would have had some more of this

[CandyCoated123]

this

[gotc147]

White guys are very leary of other races, not because we look down on them but because they tend to be very quick to play the race card.

There are lots of cool people who are black and Hispanic, but a lot of them will call me and other white people racist for the most ubsurd things. Don't like Obama? You're racist. Don't watch the Bill Cosbey show? You're racist.

Me personally, I think you're cute, I might chat you up given the proper situation.

[MissYessi]

Yeah, I completely understand where you're coming from. Most of family members are like that.. it gets so annoying. I guess some of them just give us a bad name, it's normal though.

Thank you, lol (:

[gotc147]

Anytime ;)

[CandyCoated123]

RACIST!

[Mallecroft]

well, I see that you are extremely attractive. It might just be a confidence thing. It's possible white guys tend to be less confident around beautiful women than others. Some guys also like to just be friendly and casual at first, and then start flirting later after they've been your friendly acquaintance for awhile.

and yeah, I keep getting directed to really old questions.

[drummerdude25]

I'm white and love Hispanic women... I'm shy tho so it's hard to get the guts to flirt/say something to an attractive girl. If she gives me a signal tho, or seems to have a level of interest as well, it makes things so much easier. Suggests that she's a nice girl and isn't too stuck on herself...

[Distant]

I believe it's because they're only into their own race.

[angel_patty]

i`ve only dated black guys in my life, I always see them with white girls (like myself)

[Eastside21]

i don't no.cuase to be honest, your fine as hll miss, so I can't explain that, and I'm white

[Anonymous]

I'm honestly not sure. I'm a white guy, and if I saw you I would most definitely try and get your phone number. Unless your with a group of friends or your parents, that makes any lady unapproachable.

[KERMlT]

Well you are under 18 and a bit too skinny. That's my reasoning.

[MissYessi]

I'm too skinny? lol..

[KERMlT]

Yes, from what I could tell by your pics.

[MissYessi]

Well, I'm not. I wish I was I weigh 145.

[Anonymous]

when some guys see you getting hit on by black guys they get intimidated sad but true

[camoman555]

I would your fine and I am white !

[Dom163]

Try initiating yourself