Is it only about sex/sexual things?
Do guys tend to be more shy when approaching a girl or opposite?
What was your experience when you were 16?
when I was 16 I woke up at 3 in the morning ate breakfeast in the tractor and would work the feilds till 530 came in washed up rode my atv into town and went to school then be home by 3 if I had time ide do my homework if not ide get right out into the tractor then come back to the barn and house around 11 wahs up eat dinner then go feed the cattle come back in at 12 be in bed by 1
but ide miss 1 day at least out of the week cause I had to stay home and tend to the fields
so in the end I had to keep moeny coming in there was not time for girls yeh I like girls but I knew that I did not have time
i am very very set in my ways I've always had high respect for women raised never hit a girl yes mama no mam
the only interaction I had with females that were not in my family and not at school was another farm hand and she was my age but she was paid to work not flirt and there's a time to date and a time not to
i thought about sex at 16 but not like ooh I like her breasts ooh wana pop that never stuff liek that
Thanks so much for your answer, it gives me a good idea about how it was for you at 16
No problem my pleasure
i look at it this way somone must read it to comment and maybe they think second abotu the diffucalties of farming
It's about half and half. There are a bunch of guys who got laid pretty early and now just run around wanting to try and "bag" as many girls as they can. The other half are guys who are looking for relationships. That's not to mean they don't think about things like sex, but they don't expect them to happen and start relationships because of them, it's like a light at the end of the tunnel kinda thing. In highschool it's kind of cool because you can just ask your friends what they know about a certain guy and it's usually really easy to find out who's just a player, and who would want a relationship.
Well, i'm a woman and i'm just here to know the same thing---> what does really a 16-year old guy thinks? I'm already here so i think i should share my opinion about the topic and my experience having a 16-year old boyfriend. I'm half of his age, i'm 33 but according to him, age doesn't matter. Tbh, i was very hesitant accepting the fact that i'm falling in love with him because he's too young for me. I even tried avoiding him for so many times but it didn't work. He thinks that we'll always be fine for as long as we love each other... but one day, things have changed, he's been giving me a cold shoulder but doesn't really wants to break-up... So, i don't know now what to do... i love him so much but i don't wanna get anymore cold treatment from him. Please give me your opinion and i would appreciate it a lot because i know it would help me somehow. Thank you!
Guys at their 16 is not mature at all... treat them like a children still acceptable until they realize they aren't... will took some months for them to realize it they were teen...
Im 16 and think about sex all the time every guy is different but when it comes to girls I wanna relationship but at the same time I want sex hella bad so its 50 50 for me, for me as a 16 year old young man I have high testosterone and can't help but having a high sex drive but I like it, its how its supposed to be for young men, a lot of girls my age I know are hella horny if not more horny than I am we can't control any of it its just how it is at this age for females and males.
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I was and still am uber shy around girls. I never have and never will want a relationship just for sex. I've always thought high school relationships were overrated but at the same time I think it would be nice to have a girlfriend and get dating techniques and such ironed out for later use.
Haha and here is the answer to the question "where all decent boys hang out?" - probably on girlsaskguys.com XD
It's nice to know a guy is interested in relationship and not only in sex!
Buh I was so unlucky to meet many young guys who have only one thing on their mind <.<
bad luck.
Thanks for the props. Too bad nobody ever gets to see that side of me when I'm not on the web. I might have a life outside my house if they did. But then I'd be spending money, which I don't have, so I just roll with it. I don't think any girl would want poor, big, nerdy, pessimistic me for a boyfriend anyway so I spare them the misery.
I'll be absolutely honest. Guys think about sex A LOT. Even at 16. But that's not the only reason why I would get together with a girl. If sex is all you are after, there's nothing to build on after that. I mean we are usually shy though we try not to be. That's part of why we need something more than sex to build on.
yeah I'm a 16 year old aussie I believe in relationships for more than sex, sex is one of the last things on my mind when I think of a girl.
but I'm sick of guys round here and a lot of the girls they just want sex hookups and stuff not my scene which is hard cos all my mates are like that
but anyway I would say a majority of 16 year olds think of sex at the very least 60 percent just think about sex
Theres a couple of us like Lanky, I am one of those too in a way. However, it saddens me to say that a lot of times 16 year old guys just want to have "fun" if you know what I mean.
Yep "fun" - that's easy to understand. it doesn't apply to 16 only, mostly older guys think that way too =D I still kinda believe there are young boys who are shy and want girlfriend as for dating and going out and not thinking something dirty (not ALL the time or very often that it takes over everything)
I'm more into it.. young girls seem cooler
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