Why is my friend's husband friend hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

I went out dinner with friends. I went with my boyfriend my friend and her husband. Her husbands friend and his wife were there as well. However my friend's hubby's hubby was hitting on me when his wife went to the bathroom. He was asking me all these questions about my self in front of my friends and my boyfriend. Also he was looking at me and dinner and before when we were at the museum according to my boyfriend.

What gives?

[JPorter]

Sounds like a creep. Being married and attracted to other women is perfectly normal, but you're a combination of unhappy and stupid if you're clearly hitting on another woman when your wife isn't around - especially if she's just out of earshot.

That will come back to haunt him, guaranteed.

As for you, it's uncomfortable, but just ignore it as much you can, and avoid any contact with him. If he's got the balls to be blatantly hitting on you in front of other people, he obviously has little to no respect for his wife. Seems likely he'd be OK with making things even more uncomfortable.

Don't connect yourself with him in any way, either. Guys know other guys, and if your boyfriend is saying he was looking at you, I'm gonna believe your boyfriend. Since he knows that, he views this guy as a threat. Unless you want to piss your boyfriend off, don't "be polite" and accept his FB invite or agree to hang out with him or anything like that. Just keep away from him unless you can't avoid it.

[raptor]

What kind of questions did he ask? Are you sure he wasn't just being sociable?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he finds you attractive. What was he looking at?

[Anonymous]

what kind of questions? you may be exaggerating.