Well,he clearly feels that somehow you are way too attached to him. Maybe that you don't have your own life or activities without him around.Whether or not that is true or not,only you or him actually knows that.
He seems to have one foot out of the relationship already. I don't like his response to the situation at hand though. It puts you in a place of being at someone elses..."mercy". Like he is the one holding all of the cards of whether or not you continue to be together or not. I don't think his way is the proper approach. I feel like no relationship is perfect,and that's why communication is KEY. If I were YOU,I wouldn't even respond to what has said. I would act like it doesn't affect me any kind of way. You need to show him that you don't care if he leaves or stays. Someone who can say something like this to YOU realistically could care less if you left or stayed in the relationship. If he did,his approach would have been different.
I recommend you go into complete no contact with him and let HIM chase YOU. If he wants to talk,he should be the one worrying about you and what you're doing and who YOU are with. Its going to be hard as hell to do,but I think this is the proper response. Words are not it. Some guys don't respond to words,but they respond to actions. Show him you don't need him and I bet you he will come running back. I put money on it. Don't respond to what he said. Just be silent. And silent when he goes away.
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I met this guy who I had been talking to for two months, we finally but he ghost me.. I confronted him after a week because he seems mature and we are both adults here, I felt he did me so dirty with all the shit be says to me.. he really lured me with words I felt. We didn’t hook up but when I confronted him he goes “sorry I’m really bad at responding, me and my team have been doing live projects and I’ve been overwhelmed with work” then I go “I’m so sorry, do you want to talk about it” and he goes “so tired, I’ll try when I can, busy morning” also sending me a photo of him, then I said that’s okay! Nope you’re doing good, ans he goes I hope you’re doing well! And I just didn’t respond.. am I over reacting?
I had this problem with my ex. It was horrible!
Constant text/calls. I also have a life and I can't sit there and talk to her all the time. I like girls who can keep busy and check up once in awhile. Not asking me stuff non stop all the time.
In this case I think you need to push back a bit. Spend more time on something else and wait for him to contact you.
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