It depends if she's graceful about winning and not rubbing it in my face then fine whatever. I might have a little bruised ego, I'll get over it. If she's rubbing it in my face, then it's a deal breaker. If it's in front of a bunch of people, I'd get a little embarrased and probably just go about telling everyone I let her win even if I didn't. Mostly to salvage what manliness I had left.
So my suggestion when it's one on one, go ahead and by all means beat him but with grace. you can't do a huge blow out victory dance and bring it up in too many conversations. Also if your keeping score don't make it like 100 - 1, keep it within reason.
When in public with numerous people especially with his close friends, you can do so, but do it in a way that makes him at least somewhat feel like he's letting you win. It's really help his ego.
I actually give similar advice to my guy friends, A guy can't show up another guy when that guy is in the presence of his significant other or child. if both significant others are present then be a little more competitive, if both children are present, then make it a tie.
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Men find it attractive when they've met their match/equal, either in a physical event or in a battle of wits. You shouldn't have to throw the game to get his approval or something. I'm not the best at sports and I've come to accept that. Compared to a girl who's played a sport all her life, she better be better than me at it!
I've beat plenty of guys at Basketball, in a skirt no less! I think they find it hot when they realize that I have skills and can look good while doing it.
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well I supose it depends how gud a man is nd how much he is into the sport but mostly know I wudin b into bn beatin by a girl well I never had so I don't know how it feels sorry but it is gud to be b gud at sports.
No, I don't believe in "manliness" in sports, I just hate people who play to embarrass others or rub it in others' faces
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