How do I stop being so hard on myself? It's like I can't stop obsessing?

Anonymous
I just played a soccer pickupgame with friends and I didn't do as well as I wanted and expected to. I'm very dissapointed in myself and I can't stop thinking about it. I'm like actually depressed over a pickupgame with FRIENDS... where we WON. This happens in all areas of my life. I always dont feel satisfied with what I do and must demand perfection.
How do I stop being so hard on myself? It's like I can't stop obsessing?
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