Girls, help me out with this embarrassing problem?

[Anonymous]

Well I'm a really, really flat chested girl; I'm 16, turning 17 in two months. I'm more flat chested than anyone you've probably came across. It's like I didn't even mature much since I was a kid! It's terrible.. It all happened because I was getting bullied in elementary school because I was a bit overweight as a little girl, so I decided to bring this to an end on the eighth grade, right before I got my period. So I started losing a lot of weight when I actually needed it for other stuff :/ it was the most important time for me to keep it, then I could have lost it later.. But yeah, so that happened and now I'm literally so flat. Like I'm not saying this because of guys or anything, I just don't feel feminine at all when I'm this way :( I don't want push up or padded bras; I don't want to start gaining weight, too. What should I do?

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[Anonymous]

Embrace it. Nothing wrong with being flat chested, that's your body.

Kiera Knightley is flat, but she doesn't care. She's still a beautiful women. She even talked about painting on her cleavage for Pirates of the Caribbean.

https://i.imgur.com/wyMngkf.jpg

Being flat doesn't make you any less of a woman. You could wear tops that flatter your figure, just like other shapes.

[Asker]

Thank you so much; that was somewhat encouraging <3 but I'm actually flatter than keira knightley. It's okay though, I get what you're saying. Thanks :D

[Opinion Owner]

Ok that's good, no problem! :)

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

Well for one thing, it's unlikely that this is due to you losing weight. Breast development has to do with hormones and such, not necessarily how much excess weight you have on your body. Unfortunately, other than padded bras or surgery or birth control, there's not really much you can do to make your boobs bigger.

[CheerGirl38139]

What do you mean "What should I do"? Why do you not want to wear padded/pushup bras?

The only choices you have are to wear those bras and buy tops that look flattering on you, or simply come to grips that you don't have any boobs (or both things actually. That's what I do).

AND... you can look into breast implant surgery for after high school (which is something I've been researching) if that is something you would consider.

What else is there?

[Thorniestmax]

Oh, Sweetie, I wish I could give you some of mine. I'm on the opposite end of the scale, I've been a C-cup since I was nine.