It's not easy. I used to have this, and still do, to some extent. You can read about a ton of theories on how to correct it, but in my experience, time and experience was the only thing that helped. I sort of grew out of it, especially after going through some severe experiences. I stopped caring what people thought, and so I stopped getting worried about how strangers saw me. I'm still evolving, though. Right now, I am very unapproachable among people I don't know, but their presence doesn't make me anxious. in fact, I tend to have a dominating presence, despite being 5'9 and 130 lbs. At least that's what it seems like to me. When I was younger, I was very passive, and sometimes got taken advantage of. After some life and death experiences, I'm guessing I developed a 500 yard stare. People probably see me as hostile, in some way. So I am still learning how to be more socially welcoming and approaching, how to make dumb small talk that appeals to upbeat people. The only time I still get what resembles social anxiety is when I'm forced to be in certain family reunions. Luckily, I have gotten away from even that.
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Hi shot in the dark but
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Good luck
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I would say get yourself a friend that's a lot more social to bring you out I your shell so to speak so they bring your around and have basically practicing being out and around more
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To be in it a lot big crowds so you can just beat it
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