Sounds like you definitely inherited a sense of self-entitelment from her, if nothing else. First I'd like to say that people are not "pretty much diabetic." It's not a medical diagnosis. There are three categories of diagnosis for diabetes mellitus: type 1, type 2, and gestational, so if your mom thinks you are being overly dramatic about your food sensitivities, I think she is being reasonable there. A lot of people get stomach aches after consuming large amounts of sugar. This isn't diabetes. If you want the kind of foods you like, I suggest going to the store with her more than "rarely." It will ensure that you get the types of food that you want. I would say that to prevent her from eating your food, it would be best to buy things that can be made to eat and that are not "ready to eat." So instead of buying a pre-made cold cut sandwich, you should buy bread, and sliced turkey, and all the fixings. Your mom isn't going to eat a whole loaf of bread in one sitting by herself (and if she is, then she has a problem and you may want to sit down and have an honest, caring talk with her). If you really want to stir up a scene and you are really upset, you could always tell your father where his money is going.
Also, a change in perspective may help. It sounds like an attitude of gratitude may go a long way in making you feel less angry about the situation. Your mom after all doesn't necessarily have to buy you food (I know my fridge was often times empty growing up and I would sometimes go days without food or live on apples and peanut butter or bbq sauce and peanut butter tortillas), and she doesn't even really have to house you (I was kicked out of my house and had the locks changed on my several times - btw - It wasn't because I was a bad kid either. I didn't go to parties, didn't drink, didn't do drugs, and I finished high school with a 3.2 average, was on the varsity chess team and the junior varsity softball team with a 15,000 dollar scholarship to go to a private art school, etc... you get the point). Perhaps if you are so fed up with it all, you should undertake a part time job - you need job experience to get into the working world any way - the later years of high school is a good place to start being responsible for yourself.
Good luck - hope things settle up. If you can't be grateful, maybe you can forgive. This too shall pass.
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