How is it possible for someone to live their life without any amount of stress?

[Anonymous]

Generally I don’t live, what we would call “under pressure” like having two jobs and being “on the run” without any amount of free-time, but I feel like I’m being “under pressure” by small things (for most people), like if I’m expecting a call from someone at 1:00 and it goes 1:15 and hasn’t called, I feel really stressed and anxious.

I don’t want to feel stressed, because stress makes you age quicker.

[ichot]

No one can avoid stress...
That's impossible and an attempt at certain failure.

Find ways to mitigate stress immediately. Busy yourself with interests and coping mechanisms like a shower or massage.

[YHL6965]

Weed. No, seriously, it all depends of personality. Every one has his little amount of stress, but I know some people who are in a serious lack of fucks to give about anything.

[BellePepper]

It's not possible. You may think about seeing your doctor or a therapist about the possibility of anxiety though.

[Asker]

Have you got a "doctor fetish" or something like that? I have seen you at least in ten different questions telling the Asker seeing a doctor, including another one of mine. (About feeling dizzy if I talk more than ten minutes on the phone)

[BellePepper]

It's not my fault people need medical help.

[Asker]

As I told you before in my other question, I'm not the person who consults doctor about every small thing. If you like making doctors rich, OK.

[BellePepper]

Lmfao "I don't 'consult doctors' with my problems. I ask the internet instead!"

[Asker]

Because it's for free maybe?

[BellePepper]

The internet doesn't fix your problem even if it does work out that you have something other than cancer though. So you're wasting all this time and energy whinging at people when you could just make an appointment

[Asker]

Cancer? Please stop it, Cancer isn't something funny.

Anyway we are not all so rich like you, you know. I went to a therapist once, and you know how much I paid? 50 Euros. And it wasn't helpful at all. That was like 4 years ago.

[BellePepper]

Wow. You really miss the entire point of what I'm saying so consistently.

You can go see a gp about anxiety too. Which you would know if you read.

[Asker]

Do you expect me to know what a GP is? Is it hard to be more exact?

[BellePepper]

Yes. I do expect you to know what GP means or go ask google since you're so keen on asking the internet for your answers.

[Asker]

So it means General Practitioner. It's really the first time I hear about this.

[BellePepper]

Maybe they call them something different in your country...

[Asker]

Obviously, yeah.

[BellePepper]

So then why are you asking me

[Asker]

Because I didn't know the English term. I'm not supposed to know anything.

And anyway as I told you in the other questions, no matter how much you beg me to "visit a doctor". It's up to me and only. And I don't want to. So it's worthless.

[BellePepper]

LOL i don't care if you go see a doctor or not. Your life does not affect me. It also does not affect my advice. I mean if you REALLY want to keep being depressed the only person it hurts is you.

[selmo93]

I don't think that's even possible as everything's unpredictable