Why would SHE be jealous of ME?

[Anonymous]

I really like one of my guy friends! I've known him for a few years, we get along really well. And, we have hooked up before, but I'm against dating, so, there's no actual relation ship.

He doesn't live too far away, but we go to different schools, and hardly ever get to hang out together.

She goes to the same school as him. She lives a few houses down from him. They hang out all the time. She's tall and thin, and in my opinion, much, much prettier than myself.

She knows I hooked up with him. She knows a lot about me.. which I find weird, because we've never met.

But why on God's earth would she be jealous of me? Her friend/ his step brother told me she hates me..? That she's in love with him, and is jealous of me?

She will IM me all the time from his house and rub in the fact that she is there with him, like she's just trying to hurt me feelings. And it works.

But why is SHE jealous of ME? She's the one who gets to see him all the freaking time! I don't think its fair! :/

Any girls been through this?

[wilk8940]

I'm obviously not a girl but I'd say she's jealous of what you have with him. Maybe she want's him to be more than just friends with her and he won't. You on the other hand have hooked up with him, thereby getting what to her is, for lack of a more fitting word, forbidden. She just sounds jealous that you have experienced something she hasn't. It also sounds quite possible that he talks about you a lot and she wishes that he would think of her the way he thinks of you.

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense! Thank you!