Keep doing what you are doing now by asking questions, learning. I felt the same before I had my firsts: kissing, dating, first girlfriend etc. Just focus on developing yourself mentally (read books, talk to people about what you want in life), physically (workout for health, and alot of men like women who take care of themselves and are fit) and spiritually (whatever this means to you, I believe in God and I think this makes me more attractive :). Do all these things and present yourself (attractive dress and be where they are at) for the kind of man you want and one will come.
Don't be afraid to socialize with a guy and flirt or maybe ask one out. There a plenty of women's magazines and books on this. I personally think outgoing girls show confidence and makes them more attractive.
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The fact that you have no boyfriend tells very little about yourself. I am 28 years old and have never had a girlfriend (I don't know how to start a serious relationship). And yet, I know there is nothing wrong with me. A lot of people try to date steadily at early ages and I think that it is a bad idea. Don't rush things. Be outgoing and try to meet as many guys as you can. It will more likely happen as you do meaningful things like develop talents and engage in service.
Don't worry your still young. I never kissed anyone until I was 17. When I went away to school me and my roomy had a discussion about why this was so. We both had similar personalities and looks yet she has had many boyfriends starting when she was 14. We decided it was just the selection. I had known the boys in my high school and in other schools around my home for so long they just didn't seem worth it. She on the other hand went to a huge school and didn't know every one (plus her older brother had lots of friends). Anyways when I went away to school so many guys liked me and they all seemed like good guys! I loved it. It was definitely worth being single all the way thru high school. So don't worry and just wait for a good opportunity to come along!
There's nothing wrong with you. Your just waiting for someone. I wouldn't worry about the whole never kissed a guy thing either. A first kiss is something that shouldn't be rushed because of your age. You'll find someone worth sharing your first kiss, and relationship with, one day. until then, just enjoy life :)
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My friend is literally in the EXACT same position, holy shit. We think she's jaded, jinxed, cursed, etc.
Truth is, it's often just the way things work out, sometimes its just entirely coincidence. My friend and I were SHOCKED to find out this gorgeous, awesome guy we had our eye on for years didn't have a girlfriend till he was 18. Just be yourself, don't be overly picky or annoying, and let things happen.There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe it's because you don't know how. Are you willing to get one, a boyfriend? Try it and see how things go from there. Maybe you'll be more confident.
You're still young don't let the fact that you have never kissed a guy or went out with a guy intimidate you, maybe be more assertive and, a little more confident, be more social with guys and don't be scared.
Don't feel bad. I know it sucks but you are probably really shy and guys can't get too know you. What you can do is go up to a guy you know with a group of your friends. So you won't be too shy around him. Then just start talking to him. Be yourself, w/o being shy. If you have him for a class talk about that. I don't know just make conversation, if you are confident enough don't go with friends go by yourself. But sometimes having your friends there makes the whole thing a little less bad.
You're probably just shy. Take small steps to getting with a guy, it doesn't have to be all at once. Allow yourself to know that you can have someone just like anyone else can. If you make yourself available, you'll get someone eventually.
I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18, so just have fun until you do, because once it starts, you'll never remember what you were missing out on lol
Don't worry about it. Most girls your age haven't had a boyfriend or a kiss before. It's just gonna make it more special when you do get your first kiss. Anyway having a boyfriend is not the greatest thing in the world. Just have fun hanging with your friends & if you really find a guy you like then take a chance & ask him out. But just don't worry about it cause your not the only one.
Hey girl, NO, there's nothing wrong with you! And this is not just happening to you, I'm 22 years old now, and well I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 20, and he also gave me my first kiss. Besides it's easy to just kiss any random guy, you are just not that type of girl, you are just waiting for the right guy to share your first kiss.
You are probably not putting yourself out there as much as you should.
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